SOME REASONS MARRIAGES DON’T LAST

I wanted to talk a little about this. In my opinion I believe the main reason this happens is because some people shouldn’t be together in the first place. People get together and marry for many reasons. How a couple get together is also very important (adultery, the hookup, online dating, etc..etc). Some reasons peopleContinue reading “SOME REASONS MARRIAGES DON’T LAST”

WHY DO YOU STAY WITH AN ABUSER

If this touches home for you, before you read any further┬ástop and think to yourself “why do you stay.” It’s not all about the abuser, it has a lot to do with you. There are some things inside of you that holds you captive. You have a lot of issues inside that haven’t been dealtContinue reading “WHY DO YOU STAY WITH AN ABUSER”

ALLOWING YOUR PAST TO RUIN YOUR PRESENT

Many will be able to relate to this post. I can’t tell you the amount of people (all ages, race, and gender) I’ve met over the years who are allowing their past to interfere and sabotage their lives. The┬ápast for each of us is long gone. In reality the truth is no one’s past causesContinue reading “ALLOWING YOUR PAST TO RUIN YOUR PRESENT”

HOW DO YOU LOOK

This is another post for my sisters. I want you to really think about this post. How do you think of yourself? I am a nice looking female, but for a long time I wore colored contact lenses. Then one day a light bulb came on in my head. Why was I wearing the coloredContinue reading “HOW DO YOU LOOK”

AVOID THE CHEATER

Okay, this is for both ladies and gents. You’ve been told they’re in a relationship, so what should you do? I think you should RUN! Game over! If you decide to stay you need to stop and re-evaluate who you are as a person. As I mentioned in an earlier post, a cheater is disrespectingContinue reading “AVOID THE CHEATER”

HE’S A BUM, KNOW YOUR WORTH

Most miss the signs, because of what we think is love. My mom used to always say “start out how you can hold out.” I didn’t understand it then, but I do now. In relationships too many people see the truth, but choose to sweep it under the rug. What you accept is exactly whatContinue reading “HE’S A BUM, KNOW YOUR WORTH”

RED FLAGS IN RELATIONSHIPS

Many get into new relationships feeling solely with their hearts. Love isn’t blind, people are and because of it many willfully get into bad relationships that often leave them in places they never imagined and sometimes it means; dead. When an individual get into a new relationship, it’s imperative they look at the whole pictureContinue reading “RED FLAGS IN RELATIONSHIPS”