Yes, I’m back on this because too many people still don’t get it. The things I saw today makes me really shake my head. It’s a shame! If you scraping the bottom of the barrel and still not getting anything out, it’s over. If you are begging someone to stay with you, it’s over. Trying to stay in it you’re only setting yourself for unnecessary pain and misery.
If you’re with someone and they don’t want you, stop all of the nonsense; let that person go. You can’t make him or her want to be with you and in fact you’re pushing them further away. It is not the person who’s hurting you; you’re hurting yourself by trying to hold on to someone who has CLEARLY let you go. The reason they want out or left isn’t important at this point. What’s important is they’ve shown you and told you that they no longer want to be with you, but you continue to torment yourself. This is a sign that YOU have some things you need to work out within yourself.
There are many people who are in horrible situations, because they’re trying to make something out of NOTHING. Stop crying your eyes out over someone who doesn’t want to be with you. Stop falling into depression over someone who doesn’t want you. Stop contemplating suicide over someone who doesn’t want you. Stop contemplating homicide over someone who doesn’t want to be with you. Life goes on.
Many people stay in dead end relationships for no good reason. Every reason they make is an excuse. It’s sad individuals demoralize themselves to remain in or to get in loveless relationships. Kids, money, status, etc will not and does not keep relationships together. If a person don’t want to be with you nothing you have or nothing you do will make a difference.
At this point is when some individuals begin open relationships. They’d rather allow another person or people into their relationships, because they think it will keep their significant other around. Not so! You may not take heed, but I know I’m writing is the truth. Pick up your broken heart and glue, staple, tape, etc, it back together so the healing can begin. Sooner or later it will be whole again (IF you allow). Stop acting like you’re a humpty dumpty.
Some relationships are doomed from the start. I keep telling people how you start out is very indicative of how you will end. Many relationships are over people are simply going through the motions. Stop selling yourself short, because if you don’t feel worthy that is exactly how you will be treated.
Blessings to you, you, and you.