One thing I learned long ago is that people will hate on you. It’s done by those you know and those you don’t know. Matter of fact some of the very people who claim to love you (too include some family and friends), and have your back are some of the same one’s who are stabbing the heck out of you and hiding their hands. Yes, I said it, because it’s the truth. Everybody claiming to be for you are not for you; they’re talking out the sides of their necks.

Stop getting upset or becoming stressed out because people hate on you. People who hate on others are people who are unhappy with themselves. They see something in you that they don’t possess and because of it they can’t be genuinely happy for you. They can’t genuinely embrace you. The real problem is they’re upset at themselves, but they project it outward towards others. Don’t let it get to you or let it get you down. If you’re experiencing this, know that it’s NOT your problem or your fault. It’s them dealing with their own issues, the best way they know how.

As long as you live people will hate on you. You can’t ever be good enough. They will hate no matter what. If you’re the best they will hate you for it. If you’re the worst, they will hate you for it. Some people will always have something to say about you, because they are jealous, envious, and plain mean. Don’t let it get you down. When you allow what others think of you cause you stress, it means you’re giving them entirely too much power over your life. No one deserves that type of power over you. Hold your head up and continue to be the best you that you can be. It’s your life NOT there’s!

Don’t be mad at them, through it all love them and pray for them. Pray that they will feel better about who they are so they won’t feel it is necessary to exert the time or the energy in being envious, jealous, spiteful, or hateful (openly or secretly) on any other individual.