I don’t care what excuse people give for cheating, IT IS INTENTIONAL! First of all if you’re in a relationship with ANYONE and you go looking for someone else, it’s absolutely intentional. The “it just happened” is nonsense and a lie. It never just happens and it isn’t a mistake; it’s a bad decision! It’s bad decisions many choose to make.
People know their intentions and their hearts better than any individual. When a person know they have a cheating spirit they shouldn’t become involved in any committed relationship because they don’t know the first thing about commitment? If a person has the desire to cheat they aren’t ready for commitment!
Sorry – Forget about it! It’s an abused and misused word. Cheater’s are quick to say sorry when they know they’re intentionally when it comes to cheating. People already know that by cheating it will hurt the one they’re with and they know there are many risks when stepping outside of their relationships, yet many will do it.
If a person isn’t ready for a commitment why enter into one? It is a question many need to ponder over. Cheating shows immaturity, lack of commitment, amongst other issues. Many individuals are in relationships yet continuing to seek out other people without taking the time to think of the consequences of their actions. Every part of cheating is an intentional act!
Cheating is something which shows the true characteristic of an individual. A cheater can pretend to be this or that, but the fact of the matter is they are liars and they are not trustworthy. They don’t have the mindset to be committed, because they are driven by what they want when they want it despite the devastation it may cause in their lives and the lives of others. They are selfish people who need to change their ways!
We all know some people will cheat, however when you don’t require respect in your relationships you won’t get it. As I always say you teach people how to treat you and they will always treat you exactly how you allow.