Single Minded Yet Not Single

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The fault lies with both people. The one who is doing it and the one who is accepting the foolishness. Too many people accept all kinds of bull crap in the name of love. The problem is these people don’t know what love is or what it isn’t.

The ONLY single relationship is the one you have with yourself and unfortunately many people can’t even get that one right! The truth is just that!!

People are far more focused on being with someone versus loving and getting to know self. I guarantee along with a promise if people would first learn to love self this would eliminate from the very beginning many bad relationships they find themselves in. People settle for way less than they actually deserve because they don’t know how to love self. If you can’t love yourself you will have many issues trying to love someone else. You can’t maintain a happy relationship with anyone if you can’t maintain one with yourself first!

A lot of people put up with any and everything in the name of what they think is love. They take anything, accept anything, and will do anything. If you have to do this with anyone then you are with the wrong person. Healthy relationships aren’t one sided. You can’t make another person treat you how you desire UNLESS it’s already in them.

So many are focused on the other person meanwhile forgetting about self. They throw their dreams, goals, and everything else to the wayside focusing only on the person they are with. It’s nonsense! You shouldn’t have to be in a battle for love. If you are you’re in love with the wrong person. Truth is it’s not love at all. Relationships shouldn’t be hard as people make them.

There are a lot of unhappy people in a lot of unhealthy relationships yet they choose to stay. Many get married and are very happy and lonely. Many get married yet are living like single people (sad)! You want to know why that is? It’s because these people don’t truly love self and they certainly don’t know what real love is. They are dependent upon someone else for their happiness. You can’t find happiness and love in anyone if you don’t first have it within yourself for yourself!

Significant others knows how you feel, because most of you are eager to show them. Many of them have their own issues which is why they give the person they are with the blues. Everything you say you want you tell them and a lot of times they will be who you say you want to get you. Sometimes they don’t care they will still mistreat you right from the start, but because people are so full of their own baggage they dismiss this mistreatment. People are abused on all levels in their relationships, disrespected on all levels, and sometimes murdered. It’s because people are too focused on being in a relationship they fail to see they have settled for anything to get something, that’s in fact NOTHING! People stay for many reasons and if it’s NOT because the two people are in love and love one another then ALL excuses are wrong! Making excuses get you stuck in bad relationships, period! People get into them for the wrong reasons, in the wrong ways, and with the wrong people. Then on top of all of that foolishness they stay for the wrong reasons. The main reason is FEAR (for your life, security, being alone, etc). Guess what? If you feel this way you’ve given up your power! You’ve stayed far too long!

Learn to develop a relationship with yourself. Learn how to get pass all of your issues and embrace and love yourself! When people don’t do this all of their issues causes them to get into and stay into bad relationships. They are dependent on others for their happiness and this NEVER works. Many people cause themselves unnecessary drama. Significant others and other people in general will treat you how you treat yourself and in any way you allow yourself to be treated. If you act desperate and eager it is how you will be treated. If you allow abuse you will be abused. If you allow disrespect you will be disrespected. If you give your power it will be taken! Whatever you allow is exactly what you will get. This has absolutely nothing to do with love! Until people grasp this and understand it they will always be in a losing battle. They will always find themselves fighting unnecessary battles in their relationships. Its like trying to put a 6.5 size foot into a size 5 shoe. It will cause you NOTHING but pain and misery. It will NOT work!

The greatest relationship anyone can have is with God the Father, Jesus the Son, and the Holy Spirit. However, for unbelievers then I challenge you to at least learn to love yourself. When you love yourself I guarantee you things change. You learn to appreciate yourself, you learn that you’re your greatest wingman and supporter. You will learn how not to give your power to anything or anyone. You will not allow people to treat you any kind of way they want.

People must stop focusing so much on being with someone and focus on learning to love self. I don’t care what you have gone through in your life. How tragic makes no difference, you must learn to love yourself. Your life is yours and ONLY you gets to choose how you will live it. You can allow things to weigh you down and knock you out or you can choose to be the best you that you can be in ALL situations. Learn from every situation, because believe it or not EVERY situation (good or bad) is indeed a learning experience!

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Doing the Unthinkable for Fame

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Yes and it’s so very sad! Many people are desperately chasing fame and will do ANYTHING to get and keep it. Listen, there’s nothing wrong with doing something in your life, to set and achieve goals, and to seek after being the best you can be. However, when it’s an obsession after money and fame then you are treading on dangerous grounds.

A lot of people have forgotten where they have come from. Many came from nothing, but they get a little something and they completely change. They THINK they are better because they can afford better. NO they are not better! They lose humility and they become quite vain.

This world is full of vultures who are preying everyday on desperate people who are seeking fame and fortune or power in general. They are preying everyday on those who are craving to stay famous. The most saddest part is they use children in the midst of it all. Children are a commodity in this world. This is why they are constantly coming up missing. They are used by those who are seeking fame and fortune. They are used by those who are seeking to stay on top. Children are either bred specifically, kidnapped, or given freely by their loved ones to be groomed as high priest or sacrifices. They are abused on the highest levels. Children are born into or brought into generational Satanism. Please do your research. The only people who don’t want to face this truth is those who are doing it and those who choose to turn a deaf ear (heads in the sand). Please, please, protect the children.

People think doing the unthinkable to children gives them immortality and power to stay on top, etc. It goes to show you how little people know. They will serve the devil, yet won’t believe in God the Father or Jesus. We ALL are immortal! Why? It’s because we ALL will live eternally. Once our spirit leave the body its housed in we will continue to live eternal in spirit form. All of the things people choose to do while they are living in their physical bodies is sealing their fate. They are choosing hell while they are living in their physical bodies. If they don’t change and stop what they are doing they WILL live eternal, but it will be in hell.

Many people in the world are put on pedal stools by other people and they will do whatever it takes to stay there. This is why many end up killing themselves, getting strung out on drugs and alcohol, getting caught up in the dark side worshipping idols and false gods, etc. They are trying to do whatever they can to chase or keep the mighty buck. This is why the Bible says “for the love of money is the root to all evil.” For as long as can be people have been the same way doing any and everything to gain status and to keep it.

Souls are completely lost in this world! This world is a dark, dark, place with people who have cold hearts. This world is full of those who are worshipping the devil. I mean physically, spiritually, emotionally, etc just as some of us worship God the Father and Jesus the Son. They are so focused on gaining the world they willfully sell their soul’s to the devil. They do all types of satanic rituals to get famous and to stay famous. They are in elite clubs doing the unthinkable! It’s sad. Parents are selling their children to gain fame. They forget they are supposed to love and protect their children, instead they end up the perpetrators handing their children off to people who are worst then they are. They are doing any and everything you can think up for fame and fortune (money).

Many people are per se doing things they don’t want to do. If a person REALLY didn’t want to do something then they wouldn’t do it. Their greed supersedes what is right and moral. All money isn’t good money and IF it’s not good money it’s not worth it! Many people have lost their way and their peace trying to stay on the pedal stools they are put on. They end up sex craved, addicted to you name it, depressed, full of anxiety, suicidal, homicidal, and a host of other behavioral health issues because they have willfully driven self to it. Many mental health conditions are caused as a direct result of a loss of peace of mind.

When people have sold their souls they are the true walking dead! Without change they have sealed their fate and put the nail in their coffins while they have blood running through their veins. Having money to do what you need to do or even want to do is great, but if the love for it has you obsessed then your are a lost soul! If you will do anything to get money then you are a lost soul! If you think being on top makes you special or makes you exempt from death then you are sadly mistaken. It does make you exempt, but NOT how you think. It exempts you from Heaven! As sure as you live your body will one day die! You will have gained the whole world only to die and can’t take ANYTHING with you. Even if they buried you with all of your possessions they would ONLY rot! They will be of NO use to you!

I feel VERY sad for people who are obsessed with money, fame, fortune, etc. These types of individuals NEVER have enough money and they are NEVER famous enough they constantly seek more and more. It drives them mad! They have unhealthy relationships, they are in and out of relationships, they are worshipping satan, they are addicts on all levels, many are unhealthy because they don’t get enough rest and they are doing anything and everything under the sun. No matter what they do it’s NEVER enough. They have no peace of mind.

Isn’t it a sad way to be? When you sell your soul then you are controlled by someone OR something else. One thing about God the Father and Jesus the Son is those choosing to serve are NEVER forced to stay on the Lord’s side once they choose to be there. They always have freewill. Selling your soul or when you’re obsessed with fame and fortune you lose all control, because you’ve given it up to something or someone to get what you THINK you want. Then once you get it you realize the high price you paid for it.

No Relationship No Power

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A lot of people talk about loving Jesus the Son and God the Father, yet they have no relationship or real connection to the source. How do people think they will have the power given unto us without a real relationship with the Creator? It’s not possible!

There are plenty of people in this world who profess Jesus and the Father from their lips, yet they are living something else! Talking just to talk won’t get it. Doing things or speaking just to be seen and heard won’t get it. No one can have the power God has given us if they don’t have a relationship with Him.

Many people are missing out on their God given power and gifts, because they choose to gamble with their lives. You can go to church, read the Bible, be nice to people, love folks, tithe, give, go to Bible study, sing in the choir, etc, etc NONE of it will get you into Heaven! You can’t get to the Father without going through to the Son and you can’t get to either if you don’t have the necessary relationship.

Learning to mimic and mock won’t work! Matter of fact it is wrong to mock God. The very people you’re fronting/faking for has to stand before the Father on that Great Day just as you and I! The Bible says “every knee say bow to Jesus and every tongue shall confess to the Father.” That means no soul is exempt.

We are living in a satanic, demon, evil infested world. I don’t know why people still want to gamble with their souls. This world has nothing to offer but death.

Too many people are too busy trying to pretend to be something they know they are not. Sad part is the same people you’re faking in front of they are faking in front of someone else. Senseless! People are too busy trying to please man when man has no Heaven or hell to put them in. Yet, people still try to act one way in front of certain people when they know they are something else.

Time is winding up. It’s winding up for you, me, and everyone else. Every day we live to see we die a little bit. I mean physically! Everyday we are a step closer to death. We may transgress back to acting like children, but these bodies don’t go backwards they progress forward.

What do people need to gain from the world before they are ready to go all the way for the Father and the Son? Seeking after everything or anything else other than God leaves you with nothing, but being a lost soul.

Many people get emotions confused with the anointing when they are completely different. Many people get gifts and talents confused. Gifts are from God, talent is a whole other story (something innate or learned). Many people are led astray by their churches, leaders, and others; because they don’t have that personal relationship for self. They are too busy following everyone and everything other than God the Father and His Son Jesus.

The Holy Spirit is here to lead and guide, but it can’t when people aren’t willing vessels. You can’t walk in the Spirit with the Spirit when you don’t acknowledge the Father and Son. People must be all the way in; if not then they are out. Plain, simple, and to the point!

Smiling Outside Broken Inside

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Many people walk around with big smiles on their faces, but they are broken inside. They muster enough strength to make it from day to day; yet they live dysfunctional lives. What’s inside is coming out one way or another and no amount of fake smiles will stop it. Most of these types of people don’t understand how they willfully hold themselves in negative states of mind.

Think about this; the only reason people are sad, hurt, angry, bitter, full of hate, pain, sorrow, etc, etc is because of something they haven’t let go! It always goes back to something! People need to figure out what their something is so they can leave all of the negativity behind them once and for all. People are burdened down because they hold on to stuff they should of let go.

Believe it or not, people get comfortable feeling the way they feel no matter how depressing it is. They are familiar with their pain. What they don’t understand is they have the power to control their own lives and stop giving power to the memories of their pasts and their thoughts. It is always what’s holding individuals back.

A lot of people would rather fake their way through life then to deal with what is really bothering them. Smiling on the outside when you’re hurting inside does nothing to help a person deal with their issues. It keeps people stuck right where they are. Many people think they are alone when it is furthest from the truth. No one in this world is going through a brand new situation someone somewhere hasn’t already dealt with or is dealing with. I know it doesn’t change the fact you may be going through, but it does mean you’re not alone.

We all have gone through things and will continue to go through our peaks and valleys for a lifetime. If a person doesn’t deal with what they have suppressed or pretend doesn’t exist it makes it harder to deal with those other things life unexpectedly throws at you.

As I’ve always stated; many are in this world full of negativity then they make decisions to bring children into the world raising them to be exactly like them. It is a sad thing and it is why many of the children grow up to be dysfunctional adults. People need to deal with their issues and make conscious decisions to break the negative cycles in their lives. If they don’t they will continue to go through life exactly the same way. It’s like a hamster on wheel; spinning fast yet going absolutely no where! Stuck!

To change starts with you the individual. You can blame all day, you can point the finger all day, and you can complain all day. At the end of the day the decision to change falls on you the individual. A smiling face is a beautiful sight, but it’s a super sad situation when it’s on the face of a person who is broken inside. Pretense does nothing at all to help a person heal and move on from their pains. Stop giving power to your negative ways of thinking and choose to break chains and cycles. It’s something a person has to do for self and it can only be done by the individual who needs it.

Choosing to be a Slave to Sin

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Romans 6 1-8 please read it. People who claim to love Jesus must take a stand. You can’t continue to willfully sin and say you love Jesus. No none of us are perfect. However, we should live in a way pleasing to the Lord. He dwells in those who receive Him and live for Him and because of it if we choose we can gain a perfected holy way of living.

We all fall short, we all go through, etc. It doesn’t mean you’re choosing sinful ways. If you truly love Him you will live for Him. When a person truly fall in love with Jesus and choose to live for Him they don’t want to do what they once did. If a person doesn’t change then something is wrong. There is no way you can remain the same!

Too many people fall because they are already trying to stand on an unstable foundation. Foundations are unstable, because people are trying to have it both ways when it’s impossible. Folks don’t want to truly give up this world. When you choose Jesus there’s no way you can continue to live the same IF you do then you’re not truthfully living what you profess.

It’s not hard serving the Lord. Matter of fact the more you do the more you want to. What’s hard in the minds of many is giving up this world. You can’t give up your old ways without giving up this world.

The sad part is many people think they are fooling God, duh, NO you’re not! You may fool some people, but you sure aren’t fooling Jesus the Son nor God the Father. If you want to stay in the world, it’s your choice, but to pretend you love the Lord yet you are still in the world it gets you nowhere other than closer to hell! Playing games with your soul is very dangerous, because you don’t know the day nor the hour your time will be up. Don’t mess around and be out of chances to get it right the Creator.

People willfully choose their slavery mentalities. They are slaves to sin and they do it of free will. They are completely led by the lusts of their flesh seeking self gratification in many ways (sex, money, love, material things, etc, etc). People are more and more offended with the truth. If you’re offended with the Word of God, it only means in some way the truth affects you. It cuts like a knife. It resonates within! Many people feel this, but they continue to remain in the world.

Most times the only reason people are pretending to love the Lord is to please man. They try to make man think they are on the Lord’s side. They learn how to mock and mimic. Yet in their hearts and behind closed doors they are doing any and everything they want to even thought it’s against the Lord.

Remember anytime you’re not all in for Jesus it means you’re out! Period!