Sold Out to the Creature Not The Creator

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It really saddens me to see how people are easily persuaded and deceived due to emotions. People are clearly seeking after something, the sad part is they don’t know what. Therefore they latch on to whoever is sounding good and making them feel good. People believe because a person has a sob heart felt story to tell and they can sing good or speak well they are anointed. This is a LIE from the devil! People get rapped up in the story, song, and emotions of the person until the person is who they end up worshipping. A lot of the individuals are openly living like hypocrites, but the people are sold on emotions. This is a disgrace to Jesus and the Father!

People are worshipping and idolizing people because they can see them and they are tangible. They fall for whatever they do or say. They are hypnotized and mesmerized by emotions and words tickling their ears. They begin worshipping these people. They are being led astray because they have no roots. They are following emotions and not the anointing. Most don’t know what true anointing feels like because they don’t understand the difference between the anointing and emotions. They are babes still on milk and have no real relationship with Jesus!

Being a phenomenal singer or speaker doesn’t mean a person is anointed, yet many believes it does. The first thing people will say is the person is anointed. This is foolish! Many people are babes in Christ and can’t move to another level because their eyes are on the creature and NOT the Creator! They are praising and worshipping a man or woman who’s not even living for Jesus, they just sing or speak well. If you’re well known it’s icing on the cake, people will follow them in a second.

Many people are so full of hurt they seek after what makes them feel good. They are blind due to their feelings and emotions. This is the exact mentality millions have in relationships. They miss all of the signs due to being caught up in how they feel. It’s like an addict, they seek after the high; the thing that makes them feel good.

Many are falling by the wayside because they aren’t yet fully connected to the true source. As I’ve said, they have no roots. They are wishy washy /lukewarm/double minded. They are seeking after the tangible while dismissing the intangible. They are following people who aren’t humble. The people they follow are broken too and can’t even live what they teach, preach, or sing about. However, because they are tangible many people worship them.

The Father, Son, and Holy Spirit can give you a feeling no man can match. It can take you from darkness to the light if you believe it and receive it. Many folks are in their own way. They are following people God can’t use because they are too puffed up and lost. They don’t have sense to humble themselves so that they decrease so God can increase in them. They can’t see this due to pompous ways of thinking. Yet, these are the people being praised and worshipped. God isn’t pleased!

Money Can’t Fix Brokenness

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True or false? I bet many of you have found this out the hard way. Most people who don’t have money or who don’t have a lot of money will do almost anything to get it. Sadly, some people with lots of money will also do almost anything to get more. Nothing is wrong with making money as long as you’re not obsessed with making it. People think money is the solution to all of their problems. Money helps, but it doesn’t solve all problems and honestly it ONLY solves money related issues.

Many people get into relationships with individuals because of what they have or for what they think they have. It’s the driving force in many relationships. After getting with who they want they find the individual is more broken then them. What’s inside of people is always coming out!

Money can help make a person look better, help a person to buy things or buy better things, go nice places, pay bills, get you what you want- desire- need, it helps people get into different positions and platforms opportunities (even though sometimes they aren’t qualified or suitable, but that’s what money get you). It gets you those things and a plethora of others. However, what it can’t ever do and won’t ever do is buy away brokenness.

Out of brokenness comes foolishness, crazy, unhappiness, sadness, depression, hate, envy, jealousy, suicidal & homicidal ideation, sexual immorality, cheaters, liars, mental stress, anxiety, lack self esteem, lack of confidence, co dependency, all types of addictions, ability to loveself or others, the ability to trust, and many other things. Money doesn’t have the power to change what dwells within. It can help with money related issues, but it can also make issues/situations worst.

Brokenness can cause some people who don’t have a lot of money to step on toes and/or necks to get more money, yet they are still unhappy. Some people who have plenty of money are still unhappy as ever. Nothing changes what’s inside other than change itself, which is nothing you can purchase with money!

People can fool you real good. They will look at you with a straight face while they are drowning in their own tears inside. Many people get accustomed to pretending it’s all okay when it isn’t. This mentality helps no one!

Many people have come to realize money doesn’t change the junk inside. They find themselves still suffering with the same issues. For many it has created more issues. When people are unhappy inside they’re never satisfied. They’re always seeking after something! Chasing the dollar has caused some people to do terrible things, which leads to more sorrow and pain. When people aren’t happy inside money won’t change that! It never has and never will.

As I’ve mentioned many times before, facing the person staring at you in the mirror is how change begins. No one can do this for you, but you! People pretend, run, hide, duck, and dodge from others, but guess who always right there? You and all of the pain inside. The pain and sorrow bottled up won’t go away on its own it’s something you must deal with in order to heal and grow mentally, emotionally, and maturely. Love from someone won’t do it and no amounts of money will do it. It is a task only you, the individual can accomplish. You have to want to change! It starts by changing your mindset and loving self! If a person doesn’t change what’s inside, they will continue to be unhappy people with or without money! ☹️

You Freely Choose How You Think, Feel, and Act

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You read it right. I mean every word! Most people blame others for how they choose to act or who they choose to become. Truth is how you act and what or who you choose to become falls directly on you! People fail self greatest of all. What I mean is many people do not have the wisdom, knowledge, or understanding of who they are because they spend their lives trying to please others, blaming others, or seeking validation from others. They spend most of their time trying to be someone else, worshipping others, allowing their pasts to stagnate them, allowing others or things to take their power, or spend time believing others make them mad, angry, etc. In doing those things they don’t allow self to mature and grow to who they can become. Many people all over the world are this way. Saddest part of it all most don’t have the wisdom, knowledge, or understanding of this because they deny themselves the power within them to change.

In order to love yourself there’s no way around dealing with the true you, which is dealing with the core. Within the core lies the truth. There lies the problems and the solutions if people would dare to uncover it. Most people continue living the same way. They choose the same paths, they choose to believe they are less than therefore they deny their worth and value, they give power to others and things such as alcohol, drugs, sex, and negative mindsets and ways of thinking.

People are stuck by their negative ways of thinking because it is what they choose. They are mad about things that happened when they were children without realizing no matter what they went through or who did it; as an individual you still have the power to decide if it makes and keeps you angry as an adult. No one makes you mad, angry or full of hate but you; yourself! It’s true! You can blame anyone you choose but the truth is the decision to be mad, angry, mean, full of hate, envious, jealous, stripe, or malice is a personal choice.

People are this way because of how they perceived and accepted things in their lives. Unfortunately many people choose to latch and hold on to negativity. They choose to not love self yet seek it in others and always ending up more broken in some way. They willfully choose to pick up drugs and alcohol as a way of coping or as their way of belonging or acceptance etc. They blame others when although people can contribute to things in your life, how you choose to allow ANYTHING to affect you falls on you, the individual!

People think, feel, and act like their parents or other care givers because it is what they choose. It’s not generational curses. It’s simply the free will of people choosing to think, feel, and act the same as those before them.

No matter what ANY of us have gone through, how we react or act because of it falls soley on the individual. How we perceive or believe it to be determines how it affects us. No matter how bad it was/is; it has no power to hurt you other than what you give it.

If you take things in as bad, then your thoughts will be negative, which in turn fosters negative feelings, and leads to negative ways of acting. This is how most people choose to live without falter. Many have died with their negative mindsets.

If you’re mad or angry it’s because it is what you chose. If you’re full of hate regardless the reason, it is what you chose. Perceiving anything as bad breeds negativity (thoughts, feelings, actions). It all ends up leading to negative mindsets. People willingly choose this poison!

Reality is we all can choose positive minds sets. If you believe troubles last always they will. If you believe your life has been ruined due to what you’ve gone through, in your mind it will be. If you believe you deserve less than, it is what you will get. If you choose to be victims of circumstances then it’s how you will live. If you feel you’re unworthy then it’s how you will act. If you don’t love yourself you won’t love anyone in a healthy way and most times you will not be loved in a healthy way. If you don’t respect yourself you will not be respected. If you give away your power to anyone or anything it will be taken. If you blame others for your life; you’re giving them power over it. If you blame your past you are stuck there and are prisoners to your own ways of thinking. If you look for happiness in others it’s because you don’t have it within. If you can’t be alone it’s because you don’t love yourself nor do you know your worth or potential. No one on earth can change your ways of thinking, acting, and feeling other than you!

I can go on and on. The moral of this post is how you’re acting falls completely on you. No one controls your thoughts, but they can control you if you allow. That too is a choice. Who we’ve become is our choice. What we think, believe, feel, and act may have been influenced in some way by others, but how it all affects us falls on us, individually! No one has power over you unless you believe they do. If you believe it you will become and act powerless. No one can change your mindset other than you! It’s all up to you! The more time you give to negativity the time you’ve lost towards positivity! You can choose change, the power lies within you! As long as you live it’s NEVER too late for change!

When You Don’t Know Your Worth

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Don’t expect for someone else to care about your worth if you don’t. People will treat you how you treat yourself and how you allow. One of the biggest problem people have in relationships is they don’t have requirements. Meaning they don’t identify what they will or won’t accept nor do they identify their needs. They don’t set boundaries nor do they have expectations. Most people simply go along with almost anything to be with who they think they want. They take a lot of nonsense in the name of what they consider as love.

Many people get into relationships based on their wants and desires and hardly ever based on their needs. They are lost and blind due to feelings and emotions. When a person is focused on their feelings, wants, and desires they actually fail to see what is happening right in their faces. Although they are in unhealthy relationships many can’t see it because they are focused on what they feel, want, and desire. They exhaust their energy trying to please who they are while getting nothing in return. These types of people are often mistreated and taken advantage of.

To know and understand your worth you must first love yourself. Many people don’t love self and are always seeking love in someone else. It almost always causes dysfunction in their lives. Individuals try hard to figure out their significant others when they don’t even know self. They try hard to make their significant others happy when they aren’t happy within self. They take nonsense in the name of love, because they don’t really know what love is. They are led by their feelings and emotions. They feel deeply with their hearts but don’t think with their brains. This leads to a life of chaos and dysfunction.

This is why many are seeking love no matter what or who and in the midst of it they find themselves in unhappy relationships with no requirements, boundaries, or standards. They accept anything. Guess what? They will always end up getting just that (anything). Too many people are very willing to settle just to be in a relationship. If you don’t know your worth it will cause many problems in your life. Regardless of what or who, you will always be treated how you allow.

When people are focused on getting what they think they want that’s all they see. Most times when they finally open their eyes to the truth they are in too deep. It’s very important people deal with their inner issues because if not they will suffer because of it. What’s inside is always coming out! Many people don’t know their worth because they have given power to their past which has kept them in negative ways of thinking therefore negative mindsets. They haven’t been able to move pass their negative ways of thinking about self due to what they’ve gone through at earlier stages in life. It’s not the past it’s how people choose to think about it that keeps them in negative states of mind.

Learning to love yourself should be priority for all. It’s not, but I wish it were. People hang on to pains and sorrows as if it were beneficial when it’s not! You won’t understand your worth until you learn to let go and love yourself. Many people are fixated on loving who they are with and because of it they don’t take the time or opportunity to love self. Until they do they will continue to have dysfunction in their lives. They will keep looking for something in others they don’t have in self. A person can tell what you think about yourself by what you allow in your life. If your worth isn’t important to you, then it won’t be to other people.