Love has Nothing to do With it

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Love has nothing to do with it, because the people I am writing about knows nothing about love. They are only faithful, dedicated, and committed to self in their own warped ways. Meaning they get what they want, when they want it, and by any means necessary.

Many people are married or in long term relationships, but they aren’t faithful. They are some of the saddest people alive. I believe some of the biggest reasons people are in unhealthy and unhappy relationships they don’t take the time to get to know who they are with; because they fall too quickly, they feel pressured or obligated to become married, they do it because their friends or family have done it, and the biggest reason of all is they get into relationships for all of the wrong; with the wrong people for reasons beyond those I’ve just listed. Most can’t find the right one, because they are too busy trying to make it with the wrong one.

Love has nothing to do with why a person cheats. People cheat because of who they really are. What’s inside is sure to come out. They have pent up issues which makes them into who they are. These types of people take all types of risks to get what they want. They cheat multiple times and claim to be sorry, but they aren’t, they’re only sorry they get caught.

Many people are confused; but instead of dealing with their issues, they make bad choices and decisions. They continue to do the same things; getting the same results. They involve other people into their messed up lives causing havoc, heartache, and pain. This is why people should be very careful who they allow into their lives. Believe me when I write cause a person makes you feel good doesn’t mean they are good for you.

It’s hard for people to see through their issues. They allow their issues to consume them causing them to live dysfunctional lives. They don’t really care about anything other than self gratification. Oftentimes they cause pain to their significant others without remorse. They are full of hurt and pain so they inflict it into the lives of their significant others. They are oftentimes clueless as to why they continue to be unfaithful. I don’t care what a person says about their significant other, it’s not their significant other’s fault they cheated, they cheated because it’s a bad decision they made to cheat.

People shouldn’t ever get into serious relationships or marriages knowing they aren’t ready to be faithful. However, sad as it is, people do it every day. They get into relationships and then expect for their significant others to want to stay with them and deal with their mess. People need to think about the consequences of their actions and the risks they take of their own freewill.

A person may not know who they are with, but the person they are with know what’s going on with self. They know they have issues and they know they aren’t ready to be faithful. In their states of mind, they really aren’t capable of being faithful, because they only do what they want despite the pain it causes. They don’t know what they need, because they’re too focused on getting what they need. Love has nothing to do with it!

No one can see the truth until they are able to see past their feelings and emotions. With feelings and emotions cones hurt and pain. A person who is able to see beyond their feelings and emotions will be very careful NOT to become involved with those who can’t. It’s easy to see the truth when you can SEE the truth! Think about that for a moment!!!

Nothing Compares to His Agape Love

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The reason I go back revisiting many previous topics is because as long as the world go around many people will NOT get it. There will always be the same problems with different people experiencing them. No matter how much information is available, people will do exactly what they choose with no heed to the truth.

Many people are doing the unthinkable in order to be loved. People are seeking something they know NOTHING about. How can you receive something and know whether it is good or bad; if you know nothing about it?

In order to truly love someone you have to first know what love is and you must love yourself. People are continuously and feverishly without fail looking for love in all of the wrong ways, in all of the wrong places, and in all of the wrong people.

Below are a few things people will do in the name of what they perceive as love:

.People will forsake their children for love and allow harm to come to them, because they base their reality on how they feel about the person they are with…..They will kill, steal, and commit other heinous acts, because they accept anything to be in the life of the person they are with (ride or die)……They will tolerate physical, mental, verbal, and emotional abuse, because they want to hold on to their false sense of love……They will perform immoral sexual acts, because they are easily enticed and influenced by who they are with even if it means doing any nasty thing to please them…….They will engage in drugs and alcohol although they never thought to try it before, because they are trying to maintain a relationship or to fit in…….Many will join gangs or other types of groups to feel a sense of love and belonging……They will accept being treated any kind of negative way and completely overlook it due to feelings of their hearts…….Some will be cheated out of their possessions oftentimes losing everything, because they allowed their hearts to lead them blindly…..They will do things they are normally against or wouldn’t ever have done before, because they are blind by what they feel is love…..They will put up with excessive foolishness as long as they can say they have a man or woman. They think some man or woman is better than no man or woman at all. How sad is that??

I could honestly write out pages and pages of nonsense people will do in the name of what they THINK is love. However, I believe I wrote enough for you to understand what I mean. People willfully and foolishly go through pure hell in the name of what they perceive as love. They are constantly in and out of relationships seeking love yet are always ending up with the same results. Still, they don’t get it!

People are desperately seeking love when God is standing with His arms wide open ready to receive anyone who is willing to receive Him. If people would only give Him and His love a try. There is no greater love in the entire world. He won’t forsake us or leave us alone. No matter what we go through He is with us. His love is never ending and unconditional. There are no stipulations for receiving His love. It’s available to everyone all across the world. He loves us despite of and He wants us to love Him!

Read carefully, I repeat; there are no stipulations for His love. However, there are stipulations to how you must live your life; for it determines how you will spend eternity. He doesn’t give you a free pass because He loves you. He also chastises whom He loves. To make it to Heaven there is a particular way we must live and it’s outlined in the Word/Bible. Him loving us doesn’t mean we are exempt. Despite of His agape love we are STILL held accountable for how we choose to live.

No one can ever love us like Jesus the Son and God the Father. We can look high and low, but there is no one who can give agape love other than Jesus the Son and God the Father. People put ALL of their trust in their significant others who repeatedly let them down, but NONE in Jesus, someone who will NEVER let them down. These types of people will do anything to be with a person who doesn’t love them yet they turn from or don’t want to receive someone who loves unconditionally.

When a person falls in love with Jesus, the first thing He does is show you what love is and in doing that He teaches us to love ourselves. When a person love his or herself they WILL not allow any ole thing or person in their life. Seeing this change in you YES people will shun you, they will talk about you, and many times you will have to walk naturally alone. It’s okay, because spiritually Jesus is with you! People won’t understand the change in you. They are okay when you’re down and out, but when you get on the right track they either pretend not to see you or they hate what they see. Just know it’s NOT you, it’s the LACK of Jesus in them.

My recommendation is after you’ve tried everything else you want to try; try Jesus, He won’t leave you alone, talk about you, stab you in your back, tell lies on you, mistreat you, do you wrong or lead you wrong in any kind of way and He will always want what is best for you. He knows everything about you and knows you better than you know yourself. He doesn’t always give you what you want, but He will supply what you need! Allow Him into your life and discover who you REALLY are through Him!! There’s no love like His agape love!!

You’ve Made Your Past Your Present

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No one can move on if they haven’t let go of the past. The past is still the present for many people, because they refuse to let go of what they’ve gone through and have dealt with. This isn’t healthy for anyone. These types of people become content and trapped in their old ways of thinking, feeling, and acting. They wear it like a badge of honor.

A person can’t grow if they are stuck. Too many people give power to their pasts. They won’t let the memories go, therefore they are constantly bombarded with thoughts and feelings of what has happened. People get older, but they don’t grow and develop mentally, because they are caught up in their past and it corrupts their present. They don’t make any efforts to change. Their lives are full of woe it’s me, complaints, pain, and sorrow. Every time you see these individuals it’s the same draining thing all over again.

Millions sabotage their lives on a daily basis. They refuse to let go of things that are done and over. Living this way completely destroys the lives of many people. It brings nothing other than chaos and havoc into their lives. They live dysfunctional lives, causing it to pool into all areas of their lives. What’s even sadder is many of these people bring children into the world wreaking havoc into the lives of their children.

When people can’t let go they grow older and into destructive adults who are unhappy with their lives. They do unthinkable things, they associate with the wrong people, they have distorted thoughts and views, they repeatedly make bad choices and decisions, they are angry, and a host of other things. They allow their pain to affect every aspect of their lives, (home, work, relationships, etc).

No one is exempt from the troubles of this world. The difference is resiliency. It’s all about how people perceive and deal with what they’ve gone through or what they are going through. Those who choose to get past things will and those who choose to waddle, embrace, and hold on to the negativity will do so despite the turmoil it causes. People who won’t let go are often walking time bombs and if they aren’t they are miserable with self and life. They are angry and bitter and it disrupts their lives in every way.

People are products of their environments, but I believe they choose to be victims of their pasts. We all have pasts. God knows if I had of succumbed to some of what I’ve experienced where I would be. I’m grateful for even as a young child I bounced back and I was able to deal with things positively. I clearly remember looking at other people and saying to myself I do NOT want to be like him or her. As a young child I saw destruction and chose early on I didn’t want to have any parts of a negative lifestyle. God had His hands on me early in life, but of course I didn’t have a clue. Now I see clearly!!

I realize we all perceive things differently and deal with things differently. However, we ALL have the power to choose positive over negative. We all have the power to choose to let go! Some people do not want to grasp hold of positive nor do they want to let go. A person behave according to what they believe. If a person think they deserve less, it is how they will more than likely act.

My heart goes out to people who think they don’t deserve better. It goes out to people who don’t want to change. No one has to live this way. Open your hearts and minds to change. Know that if you can’t let go, it’s because you’re comfortable and familiar with old bad habits and negative ways of thinking. If you carry around negative thoughts it breeds the negative feelings and actions behind them. Today is a new day and a chance to choose change!!!

New Generation, Same God

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I wanted to write about this topic, because some people want to believe because many have chosen the ways of the world, the Bible isn’t applicable today. Lies, lies, lies! I don’t care how much society changes; the Word is the Word! The Word will stand when all else fails.

Everything right is wrong in the eyes of many nowadays and everything wrong is right, this ISN’T the way of our Lord and Savior Jesus or Our Father God. It is the ways of the world which is being played out by those on the devil’s playground. Sooner or later the very master many serve will be bowing before the one and only Master. Although for many it will be too late, they will then see the truth!

I don’t care how much people conform to the ways of the world, God is unchanging. He isn’t changing to conform to us. The Bible and its guidance is unchanging. As individuals we must change to conform to Him. People got it all twisted! In today’s times, many people think the Bible doesn’t apply to them due to their different mindsets. Wrong! It doesn’t matter what people choose to do, the Word is the Word and it supersedes all! Many people go along with whatever suits them at the time. In the Bible days, Jesus never conformed to the people, he sat amongst them, but He didn’t do what they did.

People don’t fall for anything, because they stand for nothing, they fall for anything, because they stand for anything. It took me a while to get it, but God opened my eyes about it. They are like dandelions in the wind, they are all over the place.

People want to do things the way the world does things and they are fooling themselves when they think the Bible doesn’t apply today. The ways of the world are not of God. The things going on today is man’s doing and man’s agenda, NOT God’s! These people can keep believing their lies if they want to, they’re only damning their own souls.

I’ve heard some of my own family members say, this is a new generation, we do things differently. Okay, maybe so, but God is still in charge and no matter how much the people of the world wants to believe what they’re saying is true, it isn’t. It’s a delusional way of thinking. People think they can do what they want to, when they want to, how they want to, to whom they want to and have no repercussions or consequences for their actions. You will reap what you sow! God’s way is the ONLY way; accept it or not!

If Jesus or our Father God changed things to appease people where would we be? If God flip flopped like people do, where would we be? People choose to either live for Him or against Him; whatever choice a person makes is of their own personal will. Many people believe because they’ve adopted what the world has ordained as acceptable the Word no longer applies. Sad, sad, sad! As I’ve always said and written, the devil is on his j-o-b; to kill, steal, and destroy.

God created both Heaven and earth He is ruler over it all, He is ruler over us all, that will not change. People can do what they want to do and believe what they want to believe, God’s Word and His ways will not change. His Word was set before any of us were born into this world. People want to believe it isn’t applicable, because they want to live any kind of way and not be held accountable. We’re all held accountable to man, why don’t people think their not held accountable to God? Man can change whatever they choose to change, God’s Word will still stand and it is unchanging. That goes for the old generation, new generation, and generations to come!

Express Train to Hell

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I don’t know why people are hell bent on going to hell when salvation is free. The world has nothing to offer us, other than death. Don’t get me wrong, while we live we should live positive and prosperous lives. However, we shouldn’t make people or things our gods. A person can lose what they have, friends come and go, health fails, family can walk away, but God our Father and Jesus His Son are always there and the WORD will ALWAYS be a guide for us. It is unfailing and it will stand when all else fails.

People are too focused on building their legacies and kingdom’s on earth when after they die it’s done. Sure people may talk about you after you die, but what will it benefit you??? NONE at all. Many live to gain the whole world only to end up losing their souls. People are so desperate for fame and fortune they are selling their souls to the devil, literally. It’s crazy!! The devil have some power, but God has all power to include over the devil.

Many are more worried about how their physical homes look then how their spiritual home is looking. People will one day leave their physical homes (their houses and their bodies), but the spiritual part of them is what will live on. How people choose to live now while on earth determines where they will spend eternity.

People are too worried about pleasing man. They want success so badly they will do anything for it. Many in the world are either idolizing the rich and famous or selling their souls to become rich and famous. The rich is only trying to get richer. Many think they have everything when they have NOTHING! Money isn’t the root of evil it is THE LOVE OF MONEY! The love of money is destroying many and causing people to sell their souls to the devil. They sell out to the devil in hopes of achieving fame and fortune when one day they will die and leave all those possessions behind.

Not only the rich and famous are selling their souls anyone who isn’t on the Jesus’s side is selling their souls. Church leaders are selling their souls because they are trying to be on top. They have turned sanctuaries into places God didn’t intend for them to be (selling and all kinds of things in the churches). They are trying to have the biggest homes, churches, cars, etc. It makes no sense. There’s nothing wrong with prospering, but when you’re not teaching spiritual prosperity and how to receive salvation, how to be born again, and live holy; something is wrong!!! If all churches are teaching is material prosperity; something is wrong! They must teach people how to live in a hell filled world and how to stay rooted and on Jesus’s side when satan and his cronies are trying to pull them in their direction. Satan is already defeated, but people don’t realize it, because they are too busy worshipping their leaders and NOT Jesus. Some don’t know the Word because they only see it on Sundays. This is sad!!!

Individuals are selling their souls everyday, because they profess one thing and live another. They are doing everything against God, yet profess him at the same time. It’s not possible; they are liars and the truth isn’t in them. If you’re doing things against God, you’re wrong! Remember, you can’t serve Jesus and the devil too. The reason many aren’t ready to give up the world is because they think they will miss something. They are right!!! They will miss the opportunity for Heaven, because they are on an express train bound for hell.

Pretending to love and serve God is worldwide. Many “praise Him from their lips, but hearts are far from Him.” These people are only fooling themselves. This journey isn’t a game of hopscrotch; you can’t skip and hop all over the place. Hearts and minds must be about our Father’s business not when we feel like it, but all of the time.

I can’t speak for no one, but myself. I know the life I’ve led. I know the person I once was and the person I am now. I wasn’t ever wild etc, but I did do some things I shouldn’t of like everyone else. I thank God so much for keeping me through it all. It makes me cry every time I think about how he kept me. He has literally saved my life from death on a few occasions. All I can think is it could have been me more than once. I thank Him for covering me. I thank Him for giving me the sense to plant the seed in my children. They are grown now, but they know the way. What they choose is on them, but I know they know the way, period! I’m glad I got off of the express train to hell and got on the glory train bound for Heaven. Thank you Jesus!!!tee o

There is no Fear in Jesus

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I wanted to talk about this, because so many people claim to love Jesus and claim to follow Jesus. However, their walk isn’t aligning with their talk. Too many people are stuck in bad situations out of fear. Not only concerning relationships, people are very fearful because of what’s going in the world today. Loving and serving God doesn’t line up with being in fear.

Don’t fear, fear is the trick of the enemy. Fear open doors to other things not of God. Don’t get me wrong; things are scary, but it doesn’t mean you have to fear. Fear keeps a person in a bad state of mind. It keeps people fixated and stuck. People must stop professing Jesus the Son and God the Father, yet are consumed with fear. These types of people are allowing what is happening in the world to keep them in bondage. They are allowing people and things to keep them in bondage out of fear.

God wants us to be brave and strong. He wants us to believe He is who He say He is (The Great I AM). He wants us to know no matter what it looks like we are never alone. He’s with us always. He doesn’t want us to fall into fear, because it is the trick of the enemy. Remember the devil’s job is to lie, fool, deceit, into killing, stealing, and destroying.

People must let the devil know he’s a defeated foe. If a person doesn’t believe they have the power and authority to send the devil on his way, the devil will continue to mess with them. Stop allowing the devil to toy and play in your life. Kick him in his butt and send him on his way! Speak to him and let him know you don’t below to him, you have no parts of him, you are the property of God the Father and His Son Jesus. Let the devil know he can’t reside with you, he has to go, in the name of Jesus! He knows how to play on your weaknesses. This is why it’s very important people strive to grow spiritually, stay in the Word, get a daily prayer life, and get a daily relationship with our Father who art in Heaven.

Far too many profess it, but don’t live. If a person is doing this they are NOT serving Jesus and the Father. You can’t live any type of way you choose and think it’s okay with Jesus; it is not! Remember it always goes back to either you’re for Him or against Him. Think about it, which side or you on? If you’re not on God the Father and His Son Jesus then you’re a dead person walking. Faking won’t help you to make it. You have to be real in your quest to see the King!!!

Walking Away From the Start

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People must learn to do this! If people would walk away from things that aren’t right from the start many wouldn’t be in the predicaments they are in. People allow how they feel for a person get them into avoidable situations. I will guarantee you if you walk away from bad situations from the start it will save you drama and stress later on. For some walking away will save their lives.

I’m not saying walk away from a relationship without ever trying to work on it. I’m saying walk away from unhealthy people to avoid being in unhealthy relationships. You do this by adhering to the signs. Stop looking at the outer appearance, stop looking at what a person has to offer. A person can be rich and completely tainted and toxic. They aren’t worth the pain and suffering of being involved with them.

Many women get into relationships with men who clearly show them they aren’t right for them, but because they think they love their men they continue on with the relationships. Many later find they made bad choices and poor decisions. Too many women go solely off of how they are feeling about the guy instead of looking at what is actually taking place in their relationships. They go into relationships thinking their men will change, trying to save them, or thinking they can fix them. This is a foolish and immature way of thinking and it leaves women in bad unhealthy relationships. They are fixated on the sex, how he makes her feel, and basically it all is intertwined into how he makes her feel. These women seem to lose a grip on reality until finally their eyes are open, by then it’s too far gone.

Too many women subject their children to unhealthy and unsafe environments by allowing people who shouldn’t be around their children into their lives. Children can’t fend for themselves, they rely on their parents. Women who are too caught up in their men to see what is going on are women who have a lot of issues they need to deal with. It’s a sad situation for these women and their children.

Many women are allowing men to beat, molest, rape, and hurt their children mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. It scars children for a lifetime. These types of women need to get their heads out of the sand. A man who mistreats a child is a man who will mistreat his woman. Wake up and protect your children. Too many children are becoming victims to the hands of their mom’s significant others. These types of things cause dysfunction in the lives of children then they grow to be dysfunctional adults making bad decisions like their parents. I’m not saying all children will grow into dysfunctional adults, but many will and we see it every single day in some facet in all walks of life.

Men get into relationships for the some of the same exact reasons. They think they can save a woman or fix her. They are captivated by the outer appearance (shallow thinking). They get caught up in their sexual feelings or what is being done for them and to them. Sex is sex, period. Some men and women may perform a little better than others, but the bottom line is sex is sex. Some men; same as women think the person they are with will change or that they can fix them. Men like women; allow what they are feeling in their hearts to lead them into making bad decisions and choices. This does nothing but cause chaos and havoc in the lives of many.

Walking away from bad situations prevents worse things from happening. I don’t care how good it makes a person feels, if it’s not a good relationship it is bad and therefore unhealthy and unsafe. When people stay in relationships too long they suffer the consequences of their bad choices and decisions in one way or another. Sometimes those around them suffer the consequences as well.

No man or woman has to be in unhappy, unhealthy, and unsafe relationships. People get into and stay in them by choice until one day they see the truth for what it is and by then they feel stuck there by some form of fear. It can all be avoided by paying attention to the signs and walking away before things goes too far. Love isn’t unkind, impatience, possessive, obsessive, or controlling. It isn’t verbal, physical, or emotional abuse in no sense of the word. If someone loves you they will not want to cause you or your loved ones any pain. Many people miss this because they are too focused on how they are feeling. They miss all the signs until it’s gone too far. Sad, but true!