Cold Hearts

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I wanted to write again about the hearts of the people these days. If a person doesn’t believe the Bible I am sorry for them. The Bible is being fulfilled every day. I look at the love in the world these days. Love will never dissipate. No matter if many hearts are far from God, love will never go away. However, the hearts of many has turned cold. It’s because people don’t have Jesus in their lives. They claim Him, but they are only talking out their sides of their necks. They are double minded people.

Clicks are what people are into these days. People have become very focused on their little circles or clicks and they have turned cold hearts against any others. It is true! Families are only loving and dealing with certain family members, while others they toss to the side. If you’re not a part of the click it’s like you’re not a part of the family. This is very sad! To those who have these types of family members, please don’t let it hurt you. Keep loving them even if it’s from a distance. You can’t change who other people are. However, you just have to watch how you act due to how they treat you. Don’t let the actions of others cause you pain and suffering. Accept it for what it is and give it to Jesus. Keep praying for them, outside of that, it’s all you can do.

Friends and love or the lack thereof. Many people call themselves friends. Trust me, they are not! Some people wouldn’t know how to be a friend if the word bit them in the butt. A lot of people are in relationships to get out of it what they can. They call themselves friends, but really they’re “wolves in sheep’s clothing.” I’ve come to find as a Saint of God certain people who used to be my friends aren’t my friends any longer. They didn’t walk away, I did. Sometimes you have too cut the ties, walk away, and let it go. Don’t be no one’s doormat and don’t deal with their shenanigans. People treat you how you allow. Never force yourself into the life of anyone, if they don’t love you; nothing you do will make them love you. So-called friends want to be a friend when they need something or when they can’t get in touch with the people they TRULY consider as friends. They act one way around you and another around them. Think about it! You don’t need these kinds of people in your life. You don’t need people in your life who don’t mean you any good, let them go! Love them from a distance!

The heart’s of people. This world is full of people who are full of hatred, envy, jealousy, and malice. This is straight from the devil, it is NOT of God. A lot of who people are comes from their childhoods. People think, because it’s how they were raised it’s how they have to be. It’s not true!! It’s only true if it’s what people believe. Their ways of thinking are wrong (their beliefs), which directly affects how they feel and act. They’ve carried baggage from childhood throughout their lives and it has affected their ability to love. Instead of dealing with their issues; they’ve masked and suppressed them. This doesn’t work! What’s inside will eventually work it’s way to the surface. People spend more time pretending, yet no time dealing with their issues in order to reach a point of change.

If people open their minds and hearts, they can learn to love. It’s hard to love others when you don’t know how to love yourself. Stop blaming your issues on what has happened in the past. The past is gone forever and all any of us have is right now! People are still holding on to and living in their pasts when it’s gone! Many of these people are so called Saints of God.
God is love! His love is unconditional, but He forces it on no one! It’s a personal choice to accept, receive, and embrace it!

Regardless of what people were taught early in life; things learned can be unlearned! Hate can be unlearned. It is up to the individual if they are willing to change or not! We need more love in this world. People are mean for no reason. You ever went somewhere for service and the people helping you were mean for no reason? It’s sad isn’t it? Our flesh has the tendency to make us want to check these types of people, but keep in mind God is love and patient! Everyone is dealing with something. Still it isn’t right people bring their issues to work, but we all know some people do it. Show them love and kindness no matter how sour and rude they are to you, it may help them towards change.

Spread love wherever you may go to whomever you meet. You never know when you’re entertaining an Angel of God! However, in the midst of showing love, never become anyone’s savings & loan, footstool, punching bag, dumping ground, etc. Learn to love people without being taken advantage of and getting hurt by their actions. It’s not that your love is conditional; reality is at all times you must guard your heart, mind, body, and soul. Everyone you deal with won’t believe as you, therefore, they won’t present themselves as God’s children. As true Saints keep smiles on your faces and love in your hearts for ALL mankind! Sometimes you may have to let go, walk away, and oftentimes bite your tongue, but do it all in love and in the name of Jesus! This world desperately needs more love; it starts with you and I.

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