Thanks to all of you who take the time
to read my blogs. As you read this post
you will find a phrase in quotation marks. The
first person to send me a comment with the
phrase I will send you info for a $25 gift card.
I’m sorry. This card is only for use within the
United States. I picked the wrong one. I will
do one for the U.S. and international soon,
because some people are international and I
want everyone to at least get a chance try to win.
Send an email to firstname.lastname@example.org
and I will send you info for the $25 card.
No gimmicks. It’s just a way to say thank you!
If you start listening to my podcasts I will
periodically do a give away there as well.
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Many people worry about the lives of others
but don’t make anything happen in their own lives.
When its their own lives they talk about
it, complain about it, and are mad about it.
However, they’re not mad enough to make a
positive change in their own lives. They are
confined by the way they think. They get mad at
other people, because they are mad and unhappy
with self. They can’t support others because they
are unhappy with self. They are jealous and envious
of others because they are unhappy with self. No one
can fix, save, or change you unless you choose
change for yourself. That’s how it is! Many people
hold on to their pasts and/or bad experiences
which doesn’t allow them the ability to grow and
mature. They become defined by their negative ways
of thinking. They are comfortable with the dysfunction
no matter how bad. They cause their own drama by
their unwillingness to change.
To change a person must want to change! Sadly many
people choose to blame and be angry. They live
their lives in misery constantly compiling more
problems on top of what’s already present in their
lives. Life doesn’t have to be continuous drama for
anyone. Unfortunately, many people choose for it to
be, because the chaos is all they know. People
become so familiar with the dysfunction they think
it’s the only way they have to live. “You’re the
creator of change in your life.” It’s up to you
how you choose to live. Remaining stuck shouldn’t
be an option for anyone! Yet, it’s what many choose.
People sabotage any possibilities for growth.
There are a lot of things that can cause people
to adopt negative ways of thinking, feeling,
and acting. However, who a person choose to become
is up to the individual. Many people spend more
time blaming, complaining, and being angry and
not enough being committed to change.
You can’t mature and become better if you don’t
choose change. You can’t move forward if you’re
stuck by your negative mindset. Many people
aren’t allowing themselves the chance for better
lives, because they are too fixated on negativity.
Sadly, many people project their negativity onto
their children keeping the cycles of dysfunction
going. There’s always a choice to take a different
road. You don’t have to settle for what you’ve
grown accustomed, especially when its been a life of
drama and dysfunction. It’s up to you, the
individual. You deserve better! Better starts with
being aware and accepting change needs to occur.
Better starts with better choices and decisions.
Better starts with forgiving and loving yourself!