There are many people who are in terrible relationships. They are unhappy and the relationships they’re in are unhealthy. I don’t know how many times people need to hear it, but I will keep saying it and writing it. Both men and women have died in unhealthy relationships or due to them. Those that die in these relationships don’t adhere to the many signs of abuse. People die while in them or they may get out, but got out too late, therefore still end up dying even though they were no longer in the relationship. You can’t control what others do, but you can control what you allow them to do to you!
People must STOP putting their lives in danger. Most are in love with the thought of being in love when it’s not love at all. Please stop making excuses for your significant others and start protecting and looking out for self. Please stop allowing your feelings and emotions to lead you into dangerous situations and bad relationships.
People need to do self assessments before entering into relationships. If you haven’t dealt with your past pains they will cause problems for your present and future. You will always have drama in your relationships because of the drama in you! If you are being led by feelings and emotions it will cause you big issues. Wrong ways of thinking will cause you issues. One of the greatest things a person can do for self is learn to love self. I guarantee you on top of a promise if you love yourself you will NOT allow people to do you any kind of way they choose. You will not fall for any ole anything that comes along.
A great indicator of how a person really feels about self is what they are allowing in their life. It’s the truth! People can talk a good talk, but the truth will always be revealed in the decisions and choices they make. As I’ve said many times before people fall in an imitation of love and think it’s the real deal, because in truth they don’t know what love is. Most times they don’t even love self. They fall in love with people who clearly show them they aren’t right for them. They fall in love with people they shouldn’t be with in the first place. They fall in love for all of the wrong reasons, the wrong ways, and with the wrong people. Then, on top of it they end up feeling trapped in these relationships by fear.
Fear is one of the biggest culprits keeping people in relationships and situations they shouldn’t be in. People don’t have the love, esteem, or confidence in self. They look for many things in others when they first need to have it in self. The lack thereof keeps people trapped in their wrong ways of thinking landing them into bad relationships and dependent on others. They end up used, abused in all ways, and oftentimes killed. Walking away can save you from unnecessary drama, sorrow, and pain. Those already carrying heavy hearts add to their own issues by taking on the issues of their significant others. Many can’t see this because they can’t see past their wrong ways of thinking, their own pains, emotions, and feelings until it’s too late.