It’s long, but please read it. People think when reading this title I’m talking about demons with horns and all of that. Well for some people they may have actual demons if you believe in that type of supernatural. The Bible does speak of it. I am talking about the many unresolved issues most people aren’t dealing with. They too are demons people hold within, which affects all areas in their lives.
I am clearly seeing how people are hurting. I am sure many of you can see it as well through the actions, choices and decisions of people. There is so much going on in the world today. There are many people who simply don’t know how to cope. I can only tell you what I know to be true.
Many people go about life never taking the time to look within self and deal with all of what’s causing them dysfunction in life. They don’t take the time to figure out why they can’t love self, but without fail seek it in others. They don’t take the time to figure out why they keep holding on to past hurts. They don’t take the time to deal with what’s caused them to make poor/bad choices and decisions. They don’t take the time to figure out why they allow fear to keep them stagnant. They don’t take the time to figure out why they sabotage their lives. They don’t take the time to figure out why they allow and accept terrible things in their lives. They don’t take the time to figure out why they can’t control their children. They don’t take the time to figure out why they have allowed themselves to be controlled by substances, food, sex, money, fame, fortune, people, etc. I can go on and on, but I hope you get what I am writing about. All of your own problems compiled with those life has thrown at you and the issues of other people is an eruption waiting to happen. Especially when you haven’t mastered dealing with self.
People go about their lives getting involved in unhealthy relationships and not understanding why they are unhealthy. They relationship hop, they get into relationships while already in relationships, and many go into relationships while still having deep feelings for their ex’s. It all causes drama, stress, and unnecessary problems. People try extremely hard to make it work with others when they can’t even deal with self. They seek love from others when they don’t love self. You will never be able to work through another person’s problems until you can work through your own. The sad part is people continue to try. It’s because they are moving off of how they think and feel. They want what they want regardless of what they’re getting. This should tell a person something, but unfortunately it doesn’t. People feel a certain way, because they think a certain way and until people ways of thinking change they will continue to make bad choices and decisions. Oftentimes mindsets become even worse.
I wrote all of the above to say this. We are seeing how people think by the choices and decisions they make. We see it by what they are doing. We see it by what they’re allowing into their lives, etc. People are falling apart during all of the crises going on, because they can’t deal with who THEY are as an individual. Many people don’t want to face this truth and it’s why many are stuck in life. It doesn’t matter the status, title, etc. Many people have unresolved issues which due to how they think are stuck in mental states which affects their ability to function. This inability affects every facet of a person’s life.
Look at what is happening with the pandemic. People would rather risk their lives to go to beaches, have parties and other big gatherings than do the right thing for self and their loved ones. Their mindsets are in places that keeps them seeking after self gratification. What they want and desire is more important than the reality of the pandemic. Many people think it won’t happen to them, because it haven’t happened to them yet. That way of thinking can be deadly for them and others around then. It all comes from those demons I mentioned earlier. Those unresolved issues coming from a dark place within. Many people don’t think rationally. You can’t when your ways of thinking are wrong.
This is why we’ve heard of the many suicides. Despite what you may think, no one wakes up wanting to commit suicide. That isn’t how it is. The pandemic hasn’t caused ANYONE to commit suicide. Those who have committed suicide done so because of the dark places within. They have had unresolved issues over a period of time that has lead them to attempt or commit the act. They’ve undoubtedly had a history of unhappiness and depression. The pandemic had us locked down for awhile, social distancing, etc and many people were losing it. It’s unfortunate, but true. When you can’t deal with you while alone, it’s highly likely you can’t deal with you while with anyone else. A person can be around a group of people and still be alone. It has proven to be true.
There is so much I can write about in this post. However, the last topic I want to hit on is the hatred we’ve seen displaced. The Black Lives Matter movement is going on and some people aren’t getting it. They think Black people are saying all lives don’t matter when it’s furthest from the truth. They are saying all lives DON’T matter if Black lives don’t matter. Racist people are within their own races, but I’m talking about White on Black hate. It’s a learned behavior (LEARNED). It too comes from demons within. Those unresolved issues due to the negative mindsets. If you don’t like or hate people due to the color of their skin something is wrong within, period! Until people deal with their demons and mindsets lives will NOT change.
People walk around faking, lying, pretending, and you name it. They act as if they’re okay when they are not. They act as if they have it together when they do not. Some are acting as if they’re not racist when they are. Many act as if they know about love when clearly they don’t (you can’t if you can’t love yourself). What you say and how you feel can be totally different. What you say and what you do can be totally different. All of the mixed singling comes from within. It comes from what I call the core, which is what is within and where the demons lie. Unresolved issues will always without fail come to the surface!
Most people spend a lifetime pointing the figure when they should be looking at self. It ALL starts with you; how you think fuels your feelings, and actions. It’s up to you, the individual to implement change! EVERYTHING comes from how we think, therefore your mindset is very important!