Trust He’s All You Need


I know in life some days are easier than others. If anyone says everyday is great, they are lying. We all have good and bad days, but in the midst of the bad days, God is still good! Many people add to their problems by the choices and decisions they make. There are a lot of people who are broken and sad. Many of them want to give up, but I encourage you to hang on in there.

Although His time isn’t ours, He doesn’t think like us, He’s still an on time God. He doesn’t always come when we want Him, but He’s always on time. He didn’t say he will supply our want’s but He did say He would supply our needs. A lot of people don’t know what they want, they continue to make bad choices and decisions, but God and His Son Jesus knows what we need.

God gave His only begotten Son Jesus and He’s everything we can ever imagine or think we need. He’s love when we feel no one cares, because many don’t have support or people to love them, He always loves us. Man’s love is conditional, however; the love of God and His Son Jesus is unconditional. He’s shelter in the time of storms, which doesn’t necessarily mean physical shelter, but it means spiritual shelter/protection. He’s our water when we are thirsty, this doesn’t necessarily mean running water, but the water of life from the depth of the well of water He supplies so we thirst no more.

He’s a friend to the friendless, a mother to the motherless, father to the fatherless, and so forth. He’s our first, last, beginning, and end. He’s our all and all. He’s our wisdom, knowledge, understanding, and many great things we all need. He’s a healer in our times of sickness, He’s our Comforter through the Holy Spirit. He’s peace when things seems a little much, He’s joy, that’s why you should never let anyone take from you what they never gave you in the first place. Many people feel lonely because they get all into their feelings, but we don’t ever have to feel this way because we aren’t ever alone.

I can go on and on, but I hope you understand what I am trying to relay. He is everything we need. It is up to us who say we believe to trust, lean, and depend on Him. Everything we ask for isn’t necessarily what we need, trust that Jesus knows what’s best for you. Stop getting angry with Jesus, because when you do you’re allowing the flesh to lead. When you’re angry with Jesus you’re allowing the devil to steal your joy. Believe Jesus to be “the Great I AM, because that’s exactly who He is.

No one ever said when you live for Jesus your life would be trouble free. We still go through, but instead of trying to fix your situation trust and believe Jesus got it! He can handle it if you turn it over.


Do You Even Know What You Need


My question is what do you really need? Do you understand needs and wants differ? Many people are led by their wants and desires. They don’t care what they have to do to get what they want. They don’t care who toes they step on, who they hurt, who butt they have to kiss, who they have do, they don’t care if the person is married, in a relationship or what, many will still go after the person. This is wrong! They will surely end up regretting it. Most people cause their own issues by how they start out in their relationships.

I’ve said many times, people get into and stay in relationships for all of the wrong reasons. They get into relationships in all of the wrongs ways and with the wrong people who they never should have been involved with in the first place. Many find it out the hard way.

Most people don’t have a clue the type of person they need in their lives. They have too many issues and they are moving on emotions/feelings. They allow how they feel lead them into bad situations and bad relationships. Before a person can truly understand what they need, they must get past seeking what they want out of mere feelings and emotions. In order to have a lasting relationship people must look beyond feelings and self gratification and start looking at the big picture. If a person is led by their flesh they are liable to get into any type of relationship with any type of person. They are normally moving based on feelings alone.

When I write about people getting past feelings what I am trying to make people understand is that when they are driven by feelings alone they will always end up in situations they don’t want to be in. However, out of sheer feelings, desires, and wants individuals think it’s what they need when it’s not! Yes, feelings are a part of a relationship. However when a person is blind by their feelings it causes them the inability to see, accept, and understand reality due to their distorted views. When a person is all caught up in their feelings it is what they are led by. People must mature past this and to a point of seeing the truth for what it is. Although it may look and feel good, a mature persons know it doesn’t mean it’s good for them and they will know how to avoid it or keep it moving all together.

People should grow as they go through things in life, unfortunately many don’t. They continue to make the same mistakes over and over. They are people who are led by their feelings and emotions and more than likely have unresolved inner issues keeping them in the wrong mind set. Normally they don’t understand love, therefore they seek it in all the wrong ways. Love starts with self, if you don’t love yourself you will certainly have issues trying to find it in someone else. People mess up trying to get something from someone else when they don’t really know what it is, because they don’t love self. When you learn to love yourself you know and understand your value and worth. It changes how you look at things and what or who you accept into your life.

Truth is a person who doesn’t understand love will normally gravitate to people who are not good for them. They end up in bad unhealthy relationships. Many people are afraid to leave these relationships for numerous reasons. They fear losing the security they think they have, they are afraid to go because they are afraid of the person, they feel trapped, they are caught up emotionally and think it’s the best thing for them, and the list goes on. The only person can change a situation is the person in it! It starts with the man or woman in the mirror!

If Loving Someone is Wrong, Then why do it


My belief is why do it if you KNOW it’s wrong? People put themselves in a lot of bad situations by their own freewill. They meet someone and instead of looking at the big picture (the entire situation) they are blind by their feelings. If you start out a relationship the wrong way most times than not it is exactly the relationship will end. People don’t care they still will do it. They think they have the power to change the other person. They think they have the power to fix or save the other person. Wrong, wrong!

Men and women stop lowering yourselves to the ground by getting involved with someone who is already involved. Stop getting involved with people when you clearly see red flags. Stop getting involved with people who show you who they really are and you know it’s not right for you. Stop getting involved with people when they are cheating with you on someone one else. What does it say about him or her and what does it say about you to be involved with this type of person? It may seem great, but you will suffer the consequences of your actions sooner or later. There’s nothing great about it.

Millions get into bad relationships and because they are blind by their emotions and feelings they can’t see the truth. They see it, but they won’t acknowledge it until later when it’s clear things are wrong. As I’ve written many times, some people don’t get to leave because they die in their bad and unhealthy relationships. They are murdered by those they thought loved them.

Love is a lot of things to a lot of people. The sad truth is for many what they think is love it’s far from it. People have to look inside of self to understand why they choose the people they choose to become involved with when they know the relationship is not right for them. If it’s not right for you it means it’s not good for you! Run the other way before you’re in too deep!

People may appear the part (but you have to do more than look at the outside in order to see the inside, which also means looking past your feelings). Most people can’t get to that point, because they are stuck on the outer appearance or too wrapped up in THEIR feelings to see the truth when it is ALWAYS staring them in the face. I can’t even count the number of people who have told me “I did see signs of this and that, but I thought he or she would change.” The problem is people jump off into the deep based solely on how the other person is making them feel. Oftentimes people are deeply hurt by the one’s they think they want to become involved with, yet they look past it.

People have to grow up and realize when they allow their feelings to lead they will almost always end up crying about their relationships. There is absolutely no way to see the truth if you don’t use the brain inside of your head. When you use your brain, you don’t care how you feel; you will move on from the drama and shenanigans. You rather be alone and happy than to be with someone and feeling alone and unhappy. It’s a crock of bull when people say you can’t help who you fall in love with. I believe that’s a big fat lie! People can’t help it when they allow their feelings to lead. They become powerless because of their feelings and emotions. They can’t see the truth!

It’s no joke, the saying is very true “the same thing that made you laugh will make you cry!”


You Serve who you Love the Most


Oh, I know somebody will get mad over this one. Hopefully it will spark the need for change! The truth is the truth no matter who tell it. I believe with all of my being, “if you’re not sold out, you’re a sell out who’s on the wrong side). You already know if you’re for Him or against Him. There’s absolutely no other option! If you’re claiming to be for Him and not living for Him, you’re not serving Him!

Spitting words as sweet as a honeycomb is talking a bunch of NOTHING! You’re an ear tickler and that about sums it up! You’re all about a show and not at all sold out for the Kingdom of God. If we aren’t living what we profess we are putting our souls in jeopardy of damnation. It’s impossible to serve both Jesus and mammoth (the world/devil). I know you’re probably sick of me writing about it, but I won’t stop!

People have to figure out why they are risking their souls for this world. If anyone or anything is influencing you not to serve Jesus the Son and God our Father, then you have to leave them behind. Bottom line is you make the choice for yourself, you simply can’t blame anyone else. To give up the world is to gain eternal life and a place in the Kingdom. Talking the part, looking the part, acting the part is in vain when you’re not living the part. God continues to give us the opportunity to change, yet many refuse to take it, one day all chances will be null and void, because time will be up. You can’t get any get out of hell cards and you can’t get any rain checks. When it’s over it’s over! We choose where we spend eternity while we live here on earth!

Those who don’t want to give up this world are those who freely choose the side they are on. You can think all day and all night you’re on the Lord’s side, but it is truly a figment of the imagination if you’re not serving Him completely. You can’t do it sometimes whenever you feel like it. This walk is personal and daily. Smooth slick words won’t do it and as I always say your ability to mimic well won’t do it either. We must be in it all the way, not half way or some of the way; we must be in it all the way.

A lot of people would deceive you if there weren’t a gift called discernment and if the Holy Spirit didn’t lead and guide. People have it all down packed, they know how to do things and say things to make you think they are living what they profess. The problem for them is what’s in their hearts always comes and show who they really are. They are those “wolves in sheep’s clothing.” It’s truly a waste of time and energy pretending, because you get NO points for it. If anything or anyone causes you to want to do something against God it isn’t good for you in no shape, form, or fashion.

As individuals we can’t blame anyone else for our choosing to make someone or something our god. We can’t blame anyone else for the lives we choose of free will to lead. It’s no one’s choice to make other than the one who makes it. People do what they want, when they want despite the consequences of their actions. They don’t care the many people they’ve known to die, some still act as if they will never die. News flash; someday we all will die, no one on earth is exempt!

Many are confused, they have it all wrong. Although the Bible says “if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature, the old things passed away, behold all things are become new.” Don’t get it misconstrued! When it says if anyone is in Christ, it goes way beyond professing it from your lips. We must be born again and we must live Holy! This is a daily journey, a daily walk! We become new creatures when we put off them old ways. You must shed them and leave them were they fell off; and don’t go back and pick them up again! There’s absolutely no other way to become this new creature. Either a person wants to do it or they don’t and believe me; their actions tell the truth! It shows it in their character, how they think, speak, and what they do. If you can’t hide it from the One who matters, why try to hide it from anyone?

Look at the reflection staring at you in the mirror and then face the truth. If you know (and you do) that you’re not living what you profess it’s time to start. Playing as if you do on certain occasions around certain people gets you no where. Every day you do this it gets you closer to hell. If you don’t make it into Heaven it’s nobody’s fault, but yours!



The Skin Isn’t the Problem You Are


It is almost 2018 and people are still racist. There are Blacks who are racist against their own race of people and it’s because of the ignorance learned. There are other races racist against their own and it too is because of the ignorance learned. I don’t care who it pertains to; ALL of it comes from unhealthy and wrong ways of thinking leading to bad learned behaviors.

To dislike or hate some one on the basis of their skin color is beyond ignorant. People who do this need to look in the mirror at the person staring back at them. A person who have hate for others have hate for his or herself. Why do you think you have the right to do this? Who made you superior? Why do you think you’re better than anyone else? The answers are you’re don’t, absolutely no one, and you aren’t!!

People who dislike or hate people on the basis of skin color got the mindset from somewhere. They either learned the behavior as a child or they became a part of a group who think this way. It doesn’t matter where it came from it is plain ignorant. One thing for certain is no one was born with this way of thinking. It is a learned behavior that becomes habitual.

Why is the Black race the most hated? If Blacks were supposedly so oppressed and misused, then why are they still hated to this day by many? If you’re oppressing a person in everyway possible, why is the question? It is very sad that some people think their race is superior. IT IS NOT! No one race is superior to another. We all are born into skins we didn’t choose. We all have to eat and drink to live, we all experience troubles in this life, and we all die! Period!! No race is exempt from ANY of it. If there were such a superior race they would be EXEMPT. New flash, there is NO superior race of people, they DO NOT exist!

Many hate dark skin, but millions on top of millions tan in the sun, go to a tanning booths, or spray tan for color. Why if you are one who hates the dark skinned people? It makes NO sense at all!!

Skin color isn’t the problem, the problem is those who are prejudice against people with skin different from their own. It’s a shallow, immature, and ignorant way of thinking. It’s a mindset people need to get over. These types of people have deep seated issues and self hate. To hate anyone because they are different than you clearly shows you’re a person who have issues.

I guarantee you there is absolutely NO pure race. Many people who hate Blacks will probably fall out dead if they knew their true origin of where they actually came from. We all got a little of something else in us and it DID NOT originate from a White race. I know this simply by the origin of the Bible. No one can change it. You may not accept it, but you sure can’t change it. The ONLY superior is God the Father and Jesus the Son. They are the ONLY superior.

There are a lot more important things to worry about in this life then to care about the skin color of another person. ANYONE who dislikes or hates on the basis of skin color are unhappy and sad people. There’s no way they can be happy, because they have too much hatred inside. It’s much harder to hold on to hatred than it is to let it go. It ages you and it causes stress in the body to hold on to garbage and unhealthy things.

A lot of people who do this type of hating call themselves Saints of God. They are liars and that’s the bonafide truth! Like it or not! God and His Son Jesus are pure love, NOTHING else! Hatred, jealousy, malice, strife, none of it dwells in them. People who harbor these ugly things DO NOT have the Spirit of God within them. If you think you do you are sadly mistaken.

Skin is skin, it will burn, it gets dry, etc, and it will all someday rot away. No one of any race is exempt. Skin is an organ that covers and protects the body’s internal organs and structure etc. We all bleed red blood, NO ONE is exempt!! If God meant for it to be any other way, He would have made it so, but He didn’t.

I know God is VERY sad when He looks at people and the hatred they carry inside for others. This entire world has people who dislike and hate people due to the color of their skin. It’s not the skin baby, it’s you; the one who has this wrong way of thinking.

Whoever you are you need to change! I know I’m a true Saint of God and I’m still no special than anyone else. He has no respect of persons. He care less the color of skin, His face is pure light shining like a diamond. Anyone looked at a diamond? If it’s a good quality diamond all you see is a prism of colors. God is like this diamond. We are all a part of Him, but sadly we aren’t all God’s children, because many haven’t chosen to be. Still the fact remains we all came from Him and His descendants.

If you think you’re special, superior, and exempt; you may as well catch a rocket to the moon. You’re in the wrong universe! Get mad if you want to, the truth is the truth!! I pray people with this mindset embrace a new mindset in the upcoming year. It’s time to stop being and thinking foolishly. Learn how to love people no matter the skin color, because remember, it’s NOT the skin color, the problem is YOU, the one who hates. Skin can’t do anything other than rest on the body, that’s it! It’s people who are displaying the dislike and hate and those who do are the problem!! Many of you don’t believe in God and Heaven, but some of you claim that you do. I pity for you, because no way you will EVER get to see Heaven with a mindset filled with hate.

I challenge you to sit down and think about why you hate. Think about real legitimate reasons you hate. I’m talking about going way beyond the fact it is a learned behavior and a habitual way of thinking. Think about your personal experience of why you hate. Did someone do something to you personally? People of ALL races do stupid things, they do the unthinkable things, etc. No one can blame problems of any sort on one race, because every race existing on this earth do the same types of things. In saying that, please I challenge people to search their hearts and minds and figure out why they feel as they do. People will be amazed of all the time and effort they’ve put into hating when they CAN’T come up with reasons why they do! People are doing it because their friends or family has done it or do it. Trust and believe those you follow have no reasons as to why either. It’s truly sad!!


It’s not Love, it’s You


I posted about love being blind a year or so ago, I am readdressing this today. Despite what many believe love is NOT blind! Love is kind, patience, good, beautiful, and it is a word that describes emotions and feelings. A million people may have a million different descriptions for love, however it is only pure and good! God is love therefore it’s nothing but good! It is NOT what a lot of people think it is or claim it to be. One thing for certain it’s NOT blind! People who think they are in love are the one’s who are blind. They are blind by their emotions and feelings.

I don’t care how young or old many people are still led by their emotions and because of it they make horrible decisions and choices. Yes, due to different upbringings, environments, etc it can affect the way people think, perceive, feel, and act. However, ultimately as adults we can continue the same or choose to change.

People have many issues they haven’t faced or resolved, then they turn around and couple it with someone who also have their barrel of issues. They end up in chaotic relationships. They are either used or they are the users. They are controlled or they are the one’s who are controlling. They are abused or they are the abusers. They are manipulated or they are the manipulators. What I’m boiling it all down to is they have this negative load they transfer from relationship to relationship. They seem to continue to go in and out of relationships with the same type of people. They haven’t figured out that although the person they are with may undoubtedly have issues, they have a host of their own as well.

When a person is led by the flesh it is always for some form of self gratification. They will go to the extreme to get it. When it comes to their relationships these individuals are moved by what they are feeling and it clouds their judgment. No matter how bad their situations really are they can’t see the truth, because they are blind by their feelings and emotions. People around them can see, but the individuals who are involved can’t see the truth. People ONLY wake up when it’s so bad something has to give, they then begin to clear the fog. Unfortunately some never see through the fog!

These types of people have many insecurities. I’m speaking beyond the normal insecurities a person may have. I think we all have something, but not to the point of it affecting us. People who have issues they haven’t resolved or learned to cope with the affects of those issues allow their insecurities to wreak havoc in their lives. They are individuals who lean and depend on others for happiness. They seek love in all of the wrong ways, people, and oftentimes places. They need someone to make them feel validated. When they are in relationships they either love too hard too quick or their trust and insecurities causes other problems for them and their relationships.

The best recommendation I can give a person is to look inward at self. People can’t put the blame on no one, who we are lies with us. I know there are many avenues and experiences to get us to where we are, but individually we have
to take responsibility for who we choose to be. If people step back and look clearly at their situations they will see the truth. If people continue to be led by how they feel they will continue be led into places they really don’t want to be. People treat you EXACTLY how you allow them to treat you, they won’t change how they treat you until you change how you allow them to treat you! Get it!!

If people stop being obsessed by their feelings they can see clearly. People must first love self and when they do how they see things change. People who love self matures to a new level of understanding. They know they don’t need a woman or are a man to validate them and they embrace if they have to be alone until the right one comes along. They’re no longer interested in Mr. or Ms. Right now! They learn good looks don’t get it, money doesn’t get it, status doesn’t get, or any of those things. They will understand what they want may NOT be what they need!

Always look at your situation and never settle for one way love, because in truth it’s no love at all!


Cold Hearts


I wanted to write again about the hearts of the people these days. If a person doesn’t believe the Bible I am sorry for them. The Bible is being fulfilled every day. I look at the love in the world these days. Love will never dissipate. No matter if many hearts are far from God, love will never go away. However, the hearts of many has turned cold. It’s because people don’t have Jesus in their lives. They claim Him, but they are only talking out their sides of their necks. They are double minded people.

Clicks are what people are into these days. People have become very focused on their little circles or clicks and they have turned cold hearts against any others. It is true! Families are only loving and dealing with certain family members, while others they toss to the side. If you’re not a part of the click it’s like you’re not a part of the family. This is very sad! To those who have these types of family members, please don’t let it hurt you. Keep loving them even if it’s from a distance. You can’t change who other people are. However, you just have to watch how you act due to how they treat you. Don’t let the actions of others cause you pain and suffering. Accept it for what it is and give it to Jesus. Keep praying for them, outside of that, it’s all you can do.

Friends and love or the lack thereof. Many people call themselves friends. Trust me, they are not! Some people wouldn’t know how to be a friend if the word bit them in the butt. A lot of people are in relationships to get out of it what they can. They call themselves friends, but really they’re “wolves in sheep’s clothing.” I’ve come to find as a Saint of God certain people who used to be my friends aren’t my friends any longer. They didn’t walk away, I did. Sometimes you have too cut the ties, walk away, and let it go. Don’t be no one’s doormat and don’t deal with their shenanigans. People treat you how you allow. Never force yourself into the life of anyone, if they don’t love you; nothing you do will make them love you. So-called friends want to be a friend when they need something or when they can’t get in touch with the people they TRULY consider as friends. They act one way around you and another around them. Think about it! You don’t need these kinds of people in your life. You don’t need people in your life who don’t mean you any good, let them go! Love them from a distance!

The heart’s of people. This world is full of people who are full of hatred, envy, jealousy, and malice. This is straight from the devil, it is NOT of God. A lot of who people are comes from their childhoods. People think, because it’s how they were raised it’s how they have to be. It’s not true!! It’s only true if it’s what people believe. Their ways of thinking are wrong (their beliefs), which directly affects how they feel and act. They’ve carried baggage from childhood throughout their lives and it has affected their ability to love. Instead of dealing with their issues; they’ve masked and suppressed them. This doesn’t work! What’s inside will eventually work it’s way to the surface. People spend more time pretending, yet no time dealing with their issues in order to reach a point of change.

If people open their minds and hearts, they can learn to love. It’s hard to love others when you don’t know how to love yourself. Stop blaming your issues on what has happened in the past. The past is gone forever and all any of us have is right now! People are still holding on to and living in their pasts when it’s gone! Many of these people are so called Saints of God.
God is love! His love is unconditional, but He forces it on no one! It’s a personal choice to accept, receive, and embrace it!

Regardless of what people were taught early in life; things learned can be unlearned! Hate can be unlearned. It is up to the individual if they are willing to change or not! We need more love in this world. People are mean for no reason. You ever went somewhere for service and the people helping you were mean for no reason? It’s sad isn’t it? Our flesh has the tendency to make us want to check these types of people, but keep in mind God is love and patient! Everyone is dealing with something. Still it isn’t right people bring their issues to work, but we all know some people do it. Show them love and kindness no matter how sour and rude they are to you, it may help them towards change.

Spread love wherever you may go to whomever you meet. You never know when you’re entertaining an Angel of God! However, in the midst of showing love, never become anyone’s savings & loan, footstool, punching bag, dumping ground, etc. Learn to love people without being taken advantage of and getting hurt by their actions. It’s not that your love is conditional; reality is at all times you must guard your heart, mind, body, and soul. Everyone you deal with won’t believe as you, therefore, they won’t present themselves as God’s children. As true Saints keep smiles on your faces and love in your hearts for ALL mankind! Sometimes you may have to let go, walk away, and oftentimes bite your tongue, but do it all in love and in the name of Jesus! This world desperately needs more love; it starts with you and I.