Make American Great Again Insinuates What

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Listen, you, you, and you! This message is ONLY for people who hate on people of color because of their skin. People have taken this too far! No place on earth can be great if hatred is involved. American IS great, people are making it a NOT so great by the hatred, anger, and racism. Individuals who hate other races are individuals who don’t love self. People are full of anger and hatred, because this is how they were taught or they grew to be this way out of some bad experiences. Either way or however it came about any learnt behavior can be unlearned.

This racism must stop! To look at anyone with hate because of their skin color shows exactly how ignorant people can be. Who are you to hate on anyone because of their skin color? Who are you to think you’re better than someone due to skin color? No race is superior! I won’t even apologize for the truth!

We all are connected in some way or another, there’s no pure race. I challenge anyone to take a DNA test to see the truth. Not one single person on earth was asked to be born into the skin they are in. Not one!!!!!!!!! Not even you!!! To hate anyone due to their skin color is complete ignorance. Any person who does have obvious issues they haven’t dealt with. How would you like it if people hated you because of how ugly you are? Yes you are UGLY because the hatred you project makes you ugly.

Stop pointing fingers at others and take a good look at yourself. You have issues to deal with that you have not dealt with. Instead people like you do nothing but point the finger and blame others for how you’ve chosen to become. You don’t have to be ugly and full of hate toward people because of their skin color. It is what you choose to do!

If you were better than the person you hate due to their skin color than you would act better! If you were better you would show love NOT hate! If you were better or superior something about you would be different from other humans. You are NOT better nor are you superior! Is that what you’re mad about? The fact you REALLY know you’re not superior?

The foolishness needs to stop. It makes people look so immature and ignorant when they are giving energy and time to hate others. You are giving power to those people you hate because you obviously are spending a lot of time thinking about them in order to muster up the energy to hate them. It’s sad! Get a life!

How are you going to make anything great by hating? It’s ignorant to think it’s possible! People are so stoked on this hate thing and racism when everybody here is an immigrant. The Indians were the first in America NOT anyone else. Why are you mad???? Those people who are hating they don’t even know why they are hating. They are simply living the same way with the same negative and distorted mindsets from generation to generation. You’re keeping the cycle going instead of trying to break it!

Why do so many hate people of color when people of color were the slaves, when they were raped, beat, and murdered as slaves, when they were ripped from families, when some of the women were forced to care for and feed from their breast children while they neglected their own, when they were forced to take care of the fields and build things, when they were kept from learning, etc?

Wouldn’t you think the people of color should be the one’s with all of the hate? I’m simply asking why do you hate? Is it because everything they were prohibited from doing many eventually mastered? It only taught mental toughness and how to deal with your storms. Is it because of the resiliency, though they were beaten, murdered, raped, many still survived? You don’t even know why you hate, you just do, because it’s what you were taught and embraced! Do you have your own mind to think on your own or will you be a follower all your life? The racism needs to stop!

If you found out Jesus was of color would you say Lord I don’t want to go to Heaven? Never mind you will seal your fate right now if you keep living with the hate. You won’t have to worry about Heaven!

In today’s world most of the people who hate on skin color knows NOTHING about slavery at all. Yet, they have the audacity to hate because someone they know or knew hates. It’s ignorant, shallow, and VERY sad we are living in 2019 with this crap still going on. Learn to love yourself! I sure hope you don’t think you love yourself if you’re hating anyone. It’s hard to love other people when you don’t love yourself. It starts with you! Stop the hate and learn how to love, because you definitely are NOT superior. If you TRULY thought you were you would act it! Instead of being a part of the problem which is making American not so great, be a part of the solution to make it great as it can be! The answer isn’t in hate or thinking you’re superior!

I have a side bar for any Blacks who hate on Blacks, you are ridiculous and ignorant too! Don’t say Black lives matter when you’re killing your own everyday. Don’t say Black lives matter when you’re fighting in the streets acting like you don’t have any sense. Those of you who don’t like the skin you’re in shame on you! Something is wrong with you as well and you need to get your lives together and stop with the foolishness! Learn to love yourselves and the skin you’re in; you can’t love one without loving the other!

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When People Owe You Money

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When people owe you money and don’t pay you don’t fight with them, don’t be angry, don’t lose friendship, etc. etc. I know for some of you it’s hard not to do those things. However, don’t let the actions of others cause you to get out of character. You hold your own button for which you allow others to push!

I’ve been there more than once, but it has taught me a great lesson. I don’t care who it is you won’t get me twice! That goes for anyone! I will not allow a person to come back to me and sucker me again!

Some people have the audacity to treat you as if you’ve done something to them. Every time you see them they have an attitude. They act that way because they know they owe and they feel guilty, but instead of doing the right thing of paying you back, they cop an attitude.

You have people who will avoid you like the plague knowing full well they owe you money. Then when you finally ask them they are mad at you for asking. They act as if “the nerve of you to ask me for your money.” It’s a shame isn’t it?

Then there are those who will tell you a million times, I’m going to pay you, I need more time. You’re still waiting days, weeks, months, and years later! You see them buying things, etc, but not trying to pay you back.

What about those who stop communicating with you all because they owe you money. They act as if you have wronged them! Terrible isn’t it?

Nowadays it doesn’t matter to me. It “rolls off of my shoulders like a wet duck.” I figure the person know they owe me, if they act as if they don’t owe me it’s on them. Trust and believe they will get what’s coming. Some will have the gall to come back and ask for more money. That’s when you laugh in their face and send them down the road. Tell them to use the money they already owe you! Sounds harsh, hey maybe so, but you have to let people know you’re not their personal financial institution.

Remember people will always treat you how you allow them to treat you! If you’re always giving they will take and by the way some of them will go tell a friend “oh ask her/him they will let you borrow money.” Like my mom used to say “make a lie out of them.” You can’t lend to everyone who asks. When you give money on a borrow or loan you expect it back. Sadly you don’t always get it back. Stop giving your money to those types of people.

If it’s really important to get your money back then never give people money without some form of contract. I don’t care who the person is. This way if you have to go to court you will have proof they promised to pay you back a certain amount on a certain day. This will be your proof.

I barely give people money these days. I’ve been burnt many times in the past and I simply won’t allow it anymore. If I give something then I don’t expect it back. I don’t give large sums of money to anyone. If I did I would do a contract for sure. It’s up to you how you handle it. The most important thing is don’t lose control because someone doesn’t pay you what they owe you! Simply do not give it again. I know people want their money, but if you don’t get it don’t allow it to change you as a whole, just use it as a teaching tool and never do it again. Life is too short and it already comes with too many unexpected things to allow people to have you walking around all mad and bent out of shape over money owed to you. People have done foolish things because they didn’t get back money owed to them. It’s not worth the headache. Chalk it up as a loss and move on. Simply don’t do it again! I can say this, because I’ve been there and done that!

Giving Without Expecting Something

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I had to learn this the hard way. Thank God for change! I realized I had to stop expecting people to say thank you or that they appreciate what you’ve done etc. You would think a person will have common decency to say thank you! It doesn’t always happen. Sometimes people will take from you as if you did nothing at all. Accept people for who they are, BUT learn from it. Don’t allow yourself to be used by anyone.

No we shouldn’t expect anything in return, that is true! However, just because you’re a giving person doesn’t mean the person you’re giving to is an appreciative person. Stop expecting it!

I’ve learned to give and keep it moving. Do it from a pure heart. Some people will take and take, because they are greedy. Don’t allow anyone to take advantage, but always help those who are less fortunate. That doesn’t mean those who are sitting on their stumps waiting on the benefits of your hard labor. If a person isn’t trying, then they don’t deserve it. At least that’s how I see it. If a person is mentally or physically unable that is another story, but to sit complacent because you’re lazy is also another story I don’t care to entertain people who refuse to help themselves. Some days I don’t want to roll out of bed. Therefore it’s foolish to give my hard earn to someone who isn’t remotely trying to do anything. These individuals you learn to tell them no!

A lot of people are stressed out, because all they do is give, give, give to undeserving people. Look inside of yourself and figure out why. I love people and have always tried to help as many as I could/can. However, I’ve learnt people will use you like an old dirty mop if you let them. Not me! Without batting an eyelid, I’ve learned to say NO!

I believe we are here to serve others, but not to be used by others. People will use you up if you let them. Don’t! If you do you’ll feel hurt, sad, disappointed, and stressed! Never let anyone make you feel this way. Learn to say no and don’t feel bad about it either! God wants us to serve, but not be used. People must be smart about it. You can’t give to everyone, but never fail to help people. Once you give something let it be done. If you never get anything in return it’s fine. If you give to a person and they don’t repay you don’t hate them, just never do it again. Don’t let it change you; continue doing what’s right! That’s what I had to learn!

You’ve heard the saying, “get me once shame on you, get me twice shame on me!” People are always burning their bridges knowing full well they will need to come back across the bridge again. Their problem! Those are the other types of people you learn to tell them no! There are plenty of people you have to tell no and you will figure it out, because they will be the same ones repeatedly asking for something. They want your benefits after they’ve spent theirs on foolishness or they don’t have any, because they are lazy and think you will continue to give to them. Even when a person hasn’t done either and they are simply having a hard time to make ends meet. You have to encourage them to do something different. No one can get to a better financial state if they are doing the same things. If something isn’t working, find something that works! Constantly bailing people out is a form of enabling. It keeps people stuck in their current predicaments, because they know you’re coming to the rescue.

Again, when you give, do it from a heart of love; looking for nothing in return, because most times nothing is what you will get. You will be blessed for it in some kind of way!

Last note, we often focus only on the less fortunate, however we should also remember those who maybe fortunate than others. They get burdened down and tired too. Sometimes they need support in other ways. There are trials and obstacles on both ends of the spectrum. No one in life is exempt!

Abuse of the People

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Okay, here I am treading on treacherous grounds. I am amazed at how some people will go along with anything even when it’s wrong. I don’t care if it’s my mother, my children, my siblings, etc, I will not rally behind wrong! You have to use common sense and take all of the personal feelings out of it. Use common sense!

I’m not saying wanting a “wall” is a bad thing. What I am saying is the way they are going about it is wrong! This leads me to believe there is an underlying agenda.

If anyone knows anything about the Mexican border you will know there is some type of wall already in place; at least partial (effective or not). No wall will keep anyone who really wants in, out. People come in through holes, tunnels, they come in on planes, trains, and in automobiles. They always have and always will. The focus shouldn’t be just on one group of people crossing the border. I get the relevance, however it’s NOT life or death for our country. To shutdown the government can lead to life or death for people and the country as a whole. It doesn’t make sense!

Truth be told we have many, let me repeat many people who were born and raised in our country who commit heinous acts of terror all of the time. They are predominately White. I’m not pointing a finger, I’m simply making a point! I believe we should deal with our issues at home before pointing fingers elsewhere. Many people have lost their lives to people born and raised in our country! I’m I lying? No, I am not! We should focus on tougher laws in our country against anyone who commit terrorists acts NOT just focus on one group. The laws aren’t tough enough this is why acts of terror are repeatedly committed. Laws aren’t tough enough this is why children are constantly being abused, people are always robbing others, rape is occurring, murders are committed, etc etc and etc! Fix those issues and watch a difference it makes!

In my opinion what is going doesn’t show love for the people or the country. How can you all allow the people to suffer because a wall isn’t being built? It’s not fair at all and it is abuse at it’s finest. There are many ways to abuse a person. If you’re neglecting someone it is a form of abuse. If people don’t have shelter, food, etc because they were forced into the situation by someone it is abuse!

I speak the truth even if people don’t want to listen. This is why I think there is a hidden agenda. If there was love and concern about the country, why sit back and let it fall? Why sit back and watch the people suffer? Why cause unnecessary crisis for the people? Everyone in Congress and the White House are still part of the people and this country! The people shouldn’t be held accountable for a wall being built. Hash it out, but not at the expense of the country or its people.

Personal feelings and ego’s shouldn’t be a part of the debate for a wall and the people definitely should not have to suffer because no one in Congress/the White House are agreeing to anything! It goes beyond being Democrats and Republicans. At the end of the day there should be NO division. There should ONLY be unity when there are matters concerning the people and the country! Division divides the people therefore the country! Division brings failure for all not just certain people! Believe me no one is exempt, you may think you are, but no one is exempt. If the country falls you have failed the country and the people! Congress/the White House should be on one accord, period! It shouldn’t be personal. It’s the abuse of power running amok for the ENTIRE world to see!

In my opinion the Bible is being fulfilled. Everything is happening for a reason. We are being tested. Stand firm in your faith! Pay attention, but don’t lose focus to what’s going on. Keep your eyes on the true prize! God is coming back and He’s going to right the wrong! It is very sad to see what is happening in our country. I never thought I would see such a travesty taking place! We used to see it in other countries now we are seeing it in our own. Very sad!

In Control or Controlled

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I’m referencing people who allow themselves to be controlled by anyone or anything. I can take the truth, because the truth never changes. I would rather be hurt by the truth then a lie. A lot of people don’t want the truth. They say they do, but they don’t. Many people find it difficult to accept the truth because it will normally mean there’s something wrong they need to right.

Anything that has a person tied and tangled up has control over them. If something or someone controls you it means you don’t have any control over self. People shouldn’t give their power to nothing or no one!

This world has many people who are in bad situations because they are controlled by something or someone. For instance when we see people commit terrible acts. They’ve thought on it for a while until they’ve given power to those thoughts. Then the feelings are developed, afterwards the act is committed. They allowed themselves to be controlled to the point of consumption by their thoughts due to the power they gave them. Everything starts with a thought, feelings, then actions. The difference is when people are in tune with self and love self, they are not allowing themselves to be consumed by any negativity. They will dismiss it no matter what or who.

People who allow themselves to be controlled are people who have unresolved issues. The many unresolved issues causes much chaos in their lives. I know some people are thinking “everyone has issues.” Listen, I agreed. However, the difference is are you controlling those things or are they controlling you? That is the big difference! Yes, we all deal with this or that, but how we allow it to affect our lives makes the difference.

You may disagree, but I know it’s fact. Individuals who are allowing those issues to control their lives are people who haven’t healed. They are carrying around their baggage day in and day out. It’s affecting their relationships, decisions, choices, thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. It leads them to making bad relationship choices (getting with people for the wrong reasons (sex, looks, what they have, who they are, the position they hold, titles, trying to save/fix other broken people when you are also broken, etc). It leads them to getting with the wrong people (already in a relationship, married, underage, abusive, slothful no ambition, etc, etc). It keeps them in abusive relationships, controlling, obsessive, possessive, etc). It keeps people chasing after the flesh (in all kinds of ways = sex, money, fame, becoming addicts (sex, money, drugs, alcohol, fetishes, etc). It leads people into doing unthinkable things such as commit murder or suicide, road rage, etc; because they are emotional, angry, bitter, confused, hurt, etc. etc). They haven’t dealt with their issues and they don’t love self. What many people fail to understand the more they add to their already problematic lives the worst things become. It’s hard to deal with new issues you’ve adopted when you haven’t yet dealt with the old ones.

People must heal and learn to love self. If people don’t get past their pains they can never move forward to become healthy minded and properly functioning individuals. Their lives will continue to be on auto repeat. They will keep making the same mistakes with similar but different people. They will continue to look for things in others they don’t even possess within self. Their relationships won’t work. Their relationships may continue, but they aren’t healthy. People are in loveless relationships and are lonely as can be. People are staying with people who don’t love them and people they don’t love, because their seeking something in others.

I can go on and on about it. The reason individuals are controlled by other people and/or things is because #1 they haven’t healed from their pasts and #2 they do not love self. You can’t have one without the other! It leaves people lacking esteem, confidence, having trust issues, not knowing how to show affection, not knowing how to communicate effectively, depending on others, seeking security, seeking love, etc.

People are very quick to blame things such as alcohol, drugs, etc for their problems. No, no, no! Those things may amplify, magnify, or intensify problems, but something happened to cause a person to begin those things in the first place. Whatever it was/is; it is where the problem truly lies. Truth is people hurt themselves by becoming addicted to those and other things. Alcohol and drugs affects the mind, body, and soul of individuals who are controlled by it. Some people think because they are functioning addicts they aren’t addicts. Wrong! Anything you can’t do without has power and control over you! People can’t gain control until they heal self and love self. A person can pretend all day and they can put on a smile, but it doesn’t fix their issues. Pretending keeps people right where they are!

People who are harboring their own issues haven’t learned how to love self. They will take whatever to be with someone. They are influenced, manipulated, coerced, and persuaded to do things they don’t want to do. They go along to get along. They get involved with things to have a sense of belonging. They put up with ridiculousness and they take disrespect and mistreatment on all levels. It’s because they haven’t healed and they don’t love self. A person who loves his or herself cares about their own well being. They are careful as to what they get involved with, who they are involved with, and how they allow anyone to treat them.

Monsters in Societies Around the World

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I know many of you will think I’m off base. I don’t think so! Many in this world are living lies. They know they are doing the unthinkable to children while trying to hide it! They are tainted broken individuals. There’s no other way to put it. I’ve never sugarcoated anything and I won’t start today. In my opinion the reason the sexual perversions are going on in world is the toxicity continues to spread, because people continue to abuse the children who turn into adults who abuse children. No one is healing from their bad experiences. These people are continuing the cycles of abuse.

Sadly, many are in positons of power. Although many are in jobs which allows them authority and power; the power I’m speaking of is from the top. There are a lot of filthy nasty so-called secret societies/clubs were adult people do terrible things to children. If you don’t know then I’m trying to educate you. Unfortunately the foundation of many nations were built by some sexual perverted individuals. Notice I said some! They were/are in every areas of society. I believe this is why so much sexual perversion goes on. There are demands for sex trafficking, child porn, and sexual abuse all over the world. It trickles down to other broken people in lower positions of power. They’ve done things a certain way for so long then the next people in line has kept the cycles of abuse going. I don’t care who it is, the maladaptive behavior comes from the hearts of broken people.

If you research you will find many people were/are into sexual perversion to gain fame and fortune. It goes all the way back to Aleister Crowley and I’m sure even before him. He has taught people how to do the unthinkable to gain fame and fortune. He clearly was a broken man and he influenced other broken people to go along with his ways of thinking; despite how horribly wrong it was.

People from all walks of life are filled with evil and darkness. They appear as good people and portray themselves as good people knowing the whole time they have demons inside, many of which they don’t try to fight. They’ve learnt their ways of thinking, feeling, and acting unfortunately giving power to it. Instead of choosing to be better people they’ve kept the cycles of abuse going. I’ve known or have heard of many people professional and non-professional who have been caught doing unacceptable things to children. They include Generals and all ranks of the military, doctors, lawyers, policeman, teachers, priest, parents, relatives, friends of family, politicians, celebrities, etc, etc. The list goes on. All of it comes from unresolved brokenness! It seems our society is filled with an over abundance of these types of people who continues the cycles of sexual abuse.

It’s a shame and NO matter the reasons why, it’s all excuses. It’s dumb to think to abuse a child gains you fame and fortune. That’s an excuse! These types of people are into Satanic rituals. The bottom line is abusing children is wrong in every single way possible. To look at anyone from infant to any underage child and feel anything sexual means you have a major issue inside of yourself. You need help, because your ways of thinking are VERY distorted. If they are distorted it means they are wrong!

Some parents and other family members sexually abuse their own children/relative. Some do it for money (some will do anything to get money or to gain something else) or they do it simply because it was once done to them. As far as I am concerned, it’s all excuses! As an adult you know it’s wrong, that’s why you try to hide it. To sexually abuse a child or to allow it in any way; something is clearly wrong with the adult. People do it because they haven’t dealt with the demons inside of them. Children abuse children because they are adopting the same thought processes, feelings, and actions they’ve been taught. It’s still wrong! Children have to be taught it’s wrong and helped in order to deal with their issues and break the cycle!

Anyone adult who abuses a child of any age does it because they are broken. They are led by their wrong ways of thinking, which fuels their feelings and actions. Many will abuse until they are caught. Then they tell their sob story of being abused. I don’t take anything from anyone who were once a victim, but I will say; to use it as a crutch or excuse to abuse is an excuse! There is no reason at all to touch a child in a sexual manner. If someone has any type of thought to do so they need to deal with the demons they carry inside. To keep hiding fixes nothing at all. In fact it only keeps people repeating the cycles of abuse.

When will these types of people take responsibility for the monsters they’ve willfully become? Yep, I’m calling them monsters, because that’s what they’ve become! Stop the blame and take responsibility for what you do! You have perverted minds, because it’s what you’ve become accustomed to through years of hiding, lying, and pretending you are one way when you know you are something else. You’ve given strength to your demons to continue hurting others and yourself. It’s awful! People must face their inner selves and deal with those hidden things that have them trapped in their wrong ways of thinking, feeling, and acting. It is the ONLY way a person will change.

People who do these things don’t love self nor do they have the understanding of what love is. They are lost in their wrong ways of thinking. They’ve become so familiar and comfortable with who they’ve become. To them it seems right even though they KNOW it’s wrong. Change will not occur on it’s own, people must acknowledge the fact they need to change. Non one can change until they deal with their demons! The more people hide and pretend the more power they give to their demons to keep the cycles of abuse going. Think to yourselves the REAL reason why you do what you do and there you will find the truth. The one person you can’t lie to is yourself! Despite it all and no matter what; you are responsible for your thoughts, feelings, and your actions!

The R. Kelly Controversy

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I don’t normally talk about this type of stuff. I don’t follow R. Kelly or even listen to his music, but I wanted to write about this due to the topic at hand. R. Kelly is obviously someone who was once at some point victimized. However, it is absolutely NO excuse to victimize anyone, especially children. When people don’t heal from their pains they move forward in life with all of the unresolved hurt, which leads them into doing the same things once done to them.

R. Kelly is someone considered as a celebrity. Oftentimes famous people are sought after. Although I fully blame R. Kelly for his actions since he was the adult, I also blame the parents or any other adult who allowed these awful things to occur. Any adult who contributed to what happened in any way should also be under scrutiny. They were dead wrong too! They did it to gain something which is normally material things, money, etc. It’s VERY sad!

Hey, my daughters were once teenagers. Although some children look older due to physically developing faster than others they are still children. They may know about sex and they may do things to try to be noticed or known, that’s beside the point. The fact is they are children. They may get out of line by trying to be seductive, etc; the fact remains they are children. If a child get out of line, it’s up to the adult to put them back in line.

I think a program should be developed specifically for children who are involved in situations such as this. These children should be mandated into this program. If they are doing it of freewill they need to know it’s wrong. If they are doing it because someone else wants them to they need to know it’s wrong. They need a program to teach them to say NO to ANYONE who tries to persuade them in anyway to get involved in this type of relationship. I don’t care who that person/people may be. They should be taught what grooming is and what sexual predators are. Sexual predators look like you and I. Meaning, they have no particular look. They come from all walks of life. These young children need to be taught about healthy and unhealthy relationships. I’m not saying they are at fault in no shape or form. However, what I am saying is if they understand enough to know they are trying to get something out of the situation, then they understand enough to know they are doing something they should probably not be doing. They know they are getting something for something; whatever the something is! This is why many of them get involved in this types of situations. A lot of them do it of their own free will while many others are groomed, coached, manipulated, or coerced by others (the sexual predator, parents, relatives, friends, etc). If society do not EVER start looking at these young children then society is at fault as well, because it is repeatedly failing to teach these young children what they are doing is inappropriate. All I’m saying is they need to be taught it is NOT okay. They need to be taught how to avoid these types of situations. Obviously the adults who are taking part in this aren’t teaching their children it’s wrong. Society knows this problem is prevalent and running rampant in the world; why not do something to fix it?

ANY adult who becomes sexually involved with a child are absolutely wrong. R. Kelly was one thousand percent wrong for what he done. He shouldn’t have ever put himself in any of the positions he were in. He do not love himself nor do he know what love is. If he did he would have loved himself enough to not cause himself unnecessary drama. If he knew about love, then he would of known being with children is wrong and has nothing to do with love. This clearly shows he has unresolved issues. He knew EXACTLY what he was doing and he knew what he was doing was wrong. I have written several topics on this subject. These people get into certain positions and they use the power they’ve obtained to do what they are intending to do.

I’ve talked to plenty of predators and all of the stories derive out of childhood experiences. It doesn’t make victimizing right. Is is NOT a greenlight to victimize others. A lot of people I’ve spoken to said they battle with beginning to enjoy what they went through versus hating it. Those who begin to like the feelings are the ones who normally end up victimizing others. They begin the same behaviors of manipulation, lies, and deceit as those who victimized them. As victims it was their first encounters with sex or intimacy through touching (molestation, incest), etc. They are confused about how they feel. When they don’t deal with what has happened they carry the thoughts, feelings, and emotions with them throughout their lives. They may look as if they are functioning properly in society, but the truth is they are dsyfunctional people functioning in dsyfunctional ways in society. Many end up repeating the same cycles of those who victimized them. They become predators!

As I’ve said many times before and will continue to say. No one on the face of the earth can fix their problems by continuing to add to them. You can’t fix self until you face self. To continue to hide, lie, scheme, manipulate, deceive, etc. etc does absolutely NOTHING to help you heal from your issues. Nothing a person does is done in secret!!!!